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View Poll Results: What is the "dark" in "tall, dark, and handsome"
skin tone 57 36.77%
facial hair color/style 25 16.13%
hair color 107 69.03%
eye color 27 17.42%
attitude (serious, brooding) 21 13.55%
attitude (dangerous) 9 5.81%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 155. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 08-27-2010, 07:05 AM
 
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So I was recently having a discussion with someone about what the dark means, in "Tall, Dark, and Handsome". I have been hearing this combination for years, and it just now occured to me that I don't know what dark means. When I hear this phrase I picture "eggs" from the show true blood.


"Tall" and "Handsome" are pretty obvious.

To satiate my curiosity, if you use this phrase, please choose what characteristics you have in mind when you say "Dark". Or just answer in the thread.

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Old 08-27-2010, 07:08 AM
 
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No, I'm not a tall, dark and handsome Pole
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Old 08-27-2010, 07:11 AM
 
Location: Between Philadelphia and Allentown, PA
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When women use the term "tall, dark and handsome", they are talking about a taller guy (over 6 ft), dark hair, handsome. That's always been my perception as described by friends and the way that I would refer to tall dark and handsome.
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Old 08-27-2010, 07:14 AM
 
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TDH, that's me in all the sense of the word. Tall (6'3), Dark (brown), Handsome (devastatingly).
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Old 08-27-2010, 07:16 AM
 
Location: Oxford, England
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To me as a female the dark has always been more of an attitude. Someone who is a little more mysterious or edgy , a little brooding and sultry ( which in my experience also goes with dark hair - I have never met a brooding blond... ).
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Old 08-27-2010, 07:32 AM
 
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I always associate that phrase with tall and masculine black men. Like ballers for example. Not sure if a white dude or guys of other races can be referred to as "dark". That would be a bit strange.
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Old 08-27-2010, 07:35 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Dark eyes and hair.
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Old 08-27-2010, 07:38 AM
 
Location: Canada
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It means hair colour NOT skin tone. Think of this logically. If it meant skin tone that would mean that a blond man or redhead with a tan would fit the description. Most women are speaking of a man with some shade of brown hair around 6 feet tall and good looking. It does not specify eye colour.
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Old 08-27-2010, 07:44 AM
 
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It's dark vs. fair. Fair usually means lighter skin tones and possibly lighter or blonde hair. Dark usually means darker hair and skin.
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Old 08-27-2010, 08:12 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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TDH, that's me in all the sense of the word. Tall (6'3), Dark (brown), Handsome (devastatingly).
I see!
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