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Old 06-28-2007, 01:04 PM
 
Location: Phoenix...until next week, then Maryland...tick tock tick tock
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I like nice women.................... with nice legs and asses.
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That's a given.

Gotta have a decent rack and nice curvy hips too
You guys are bad!

Oh, yeah, topic....

Nice guys do exist...but even nice guys are going to have trouble with not having sex with their girlfriend for 2 years.

I'm not saying to throw your values out the window, because if you truly believe in waiting for marriage, then you should wait. Personally, I disagree with this, not because I'm immoral, but because I don't want to buy a horse I've never ridden. I want to know if it works, cuz if it doesn't work, the relationship isn't going to work. It is a very important part of a healthy relationship/marriage. That is my personal experience, but that's just me, & what works for me isn't for everyone.

I think you need to be realistic about men & their urges & desires. Be upfront about your religious beliefs & weed out anyone who is not willing to wait. I would, however, advise that you discuss the topic with whomever you're with...if you're not going to do it, at least talk about it so you each know where the other stands, what the other likes, etc. You'll need to know that stuff if you get married...

Good luck
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Old 06-28-2007, 01:09 PM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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I'm not saying to throw your values out the window, because if you truly believe in waiting for marriage, then you should wait. Personally, I disagree with this, not because I'm immoral, but because I don't want to buy a horse I've never ridden. I want to know if it works, cuz if it doesn't work, the relationship isn't going to work. It is a very important part of a healthy relationship/marriage. That is my personal experience, but that's just me, & what works for me isn't for everyone.
Both of my heads agree, lol.

Nice guys aren't hard to find, they could just be invisible. Me, on the other hand, I am invincible
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Old 06-28-2007, 01:14 PM
 
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Guys don't like nice pretty girls that don't have sex in a relationship. period. If there is a guy out there that does--something is wrong with him. My opinion that might be worth half a penny.
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Old 06-28-2007, 02:12 PM
 
Location: Los angeles
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I really appreciate all of ya'lls responses. I accidentally posted this relationship comment in this forum, I am moving to Florida and forgot that I was in this forum when I posted...sorry. So I agree with some of ya'll alot and you just affirmed some of the things that I needed to be reminded of. Frankly I strongly believe that there are guys out there who can and will wait for two years or until we are married to have sex. I believe that is how I will know that he is right for me. I know that it isn't easy and trust me I know, but if you love and respect eachtother and what God has intended then you can do it. Don't get me wrong I want sex just as much as the next person but I'm not willing to compromise my relationship with God for a little action. When I get married I have the rest of my life to be as freaky as I want to be. So thank you all very much. Plus you are right maybe I need to find out more about myself and keep walking with my relationship with God and everything else will just happen in his time. I really appreciate all the coments about my ex I do still miss him, but I ealize that he had nothing to offer me.
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Old 06-28-2007, 02:18 PM
 
Location: The 719
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Okay so here is the deal. All guys say that they want a nice pretty girl. Well let me tell you a little about myself and then all you guys out there can give me some advice. I am tall about 5'10 slendor and toned and I'm not trying to be stuck up but I'm trying to paint you a full picture...I have long blonde hair and hazel eyes I'm attractive. I am very independent and successful. I am a Christian I go to church every sunday and attend various bible studies during the week. I love to go to the beach and I love to play sports and watch sports. I also enjoy surfing and well I guess just about anything outside. So anyways everytime I meet guys they always lie and cheat on me and I don't understand why. I am very kind and generous and take pride in being kind to the people that are around me. I was with a guy for about two years and I loved him very much and I thought that he loved me but he cheated on me a few times. He cheated on me with really nasty women and when I found out and asked him why he couldnt give me a reason. So pretty much every guy that I have ever dated has done me wrong. Is it because I won't sleep with men??? What am I doing wrong? Please help
You scare the "good ones off". It's not your fault, but theirs.

You sound tall enough and athletic enough to be a middle blocker. Play volleyball. Play in drop-in leagues and maybe even take lessons to find which class you should start in. Give it time and you'll meet a guy with the same values and goals as you, can keep up with you, and realize that there are guys out there that are first and foremost attracted to your looks. That's shallow, but that's their problem.

When those guys were treating you wrong, it had nothing to do with you. It had everything to do with them. After about 4 months of a relationship is when the "infatuation" usually wears off and when the rubber meets the road. Good luck and stay nice.
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Old 06-28-2007, 02:57 PM
 
Location: Long Beach CA
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[quote=mj2575;964121] I am a Christian I go to church every sunday and attend various bible studies during the week. QUOTE]

That's where you lost me.
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Old 06-28-2007, 03:02 PM
 
Location: Free Palestine, Ohio!
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You've pretty much got it goin' on girl. Don't sleep with a guy just to keep him. Take your time and "Mr. Right" will be there for you. Never give up your values to please someone else. Stick to what you know is right and the rest will follow.
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Old 06-28-2007, 05:46 PM
 
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Nice guys do exist...but even nice guys are going to have trouble with not having sex with their girlfriend for 2 years.
Ain't that the truth!

Either the guy's probably going to start cheating on you to get some action from someone else or spanking the monkey a whole heck of a lot.

Your best bet is to find a very religious guy that doesn't believe in pre-martial sex, maybe in your bible study group, good luck.
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Old 06-28-2007, 06:10 PM
 
Location: Dilworth - Charlotte, NC.
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Sometimes I feel the pretty "finishing school" look went out of fashion in the late 1960's. Now it is more blatantly more out there than before leaving not much to the imagination. So it leaves girls like me with a coy charm out of the loop.
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Old 06-28-2007, 09:55 PM
 
Location: Weehawken, NJ
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Sometimes I feel the pretty "finishing school" look went out of fashion in the late 1960's. Now it is more blatantly more out there than before leaving not much to the imagination. So it leaves girls like me with a coy charm out of the loop.
You should see the North Jersey girls. You would think the local strip joints were holding auditions in the next hour.

Very trashy.
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