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Just curious of the opinions here about getting the sex out of the way before the date?
A girl in college told me she sometimes does this to determine if a guy is relationship caliber worthy. I think it has more to with assessing what he's got below the belt as well as his sexual performance. Kinda strange way of thinking but I can see her point. If the sex is bad, how good is the dinner and date going to be? Specifically, she said it's more disappointing when you finally get to the sex part after an amazing date and the subject male lacks the skills and required size. So as a result of that, she has no problems getting the sex out of the way first, if it happens.
No. While sex is very important in a relationship, I think actually getting along with the person in the other 23 hours of the day is a bit more important.
I do. Not on the first date (or before, as you seem to be implying) but pretty early.
I don't want to be emotionally invested and then discover we are not sexually compatible. BT,DT.
It's also a good test to see if the guy has virgin/wh*re issues. Though that has not been a problem with anyone I have dated so far. Those guys don't get that far .
To address your concerns specifically, shortnblack, most women don't care about penis size -- but they care a lot about non-penis-related sexual skills.
Just curious of the opinions here about getting the sex out of the way before the date?
A girl in college told me she sometimes does this to determine if a guy is relationship caliber worthy. I think it has more to with assessing what he's got below the belt as well as his sexual performance. Kinda strange way of thinking but I can see her point. If the sex is bad, how good is the dinner and date going to be? Specifically, she said it's more disappointing when you finally get to the sex part after an amazing date and the subject male lacks the skills and required size. So as a result of that, she has no problems getting the sex out of the way first, if it happens.
Anyone else experience this?
If she feels she has to lie on her back and open her legs to determine if a guy is "caliber worthy," then her self perception of self-worth needs some reassessment, seriously.
I want to enjoy the person. Is he fun? Is he funny? Is he ambitious and passionate about something? Is he close to his family? Does he have close friends? All these things are important.
If he is physically repulsive, or not hot for me, than those other important things are not so important. Relationships are complicated, but a physical attraction is the most important, unless the other things are not there.
To address your concerns specifically, shortnblack, most women don't care about penis size -- but they care a lot about non-penis-related sexual skills.
Right. And the good news is that the latter can be improved. So I don't see any point in checking out the size/skills in advance of dating.
If she feels she has to lie on her back and open her legs to determine if a guy is "caliber worthy," then her self perception of self-worth needs some reassessment, seriously.
Seriously indeed!
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