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First, forget about feeling bad of being overweight. Anybody who tells you that people will shy away from you for being overweight is lying. Think of it. Most people in the US are overweight. are all of those people shunned and lonely lol. Of course not. We can see readily that overweight people can prosper socially. Social interaction is about connections above all else.
And you seem to base your self-esteem on what others think. You should highlight aspects of you that YOU like. This is the real root of self-esteem.
Lastly, getting dates is not hard. You just have to be yourself, and surround yourself with friends. More social contacts means more dates.
Everyone's self esteem is based off the feedback she gets from others. If someone was told they were UGLY by everyone they met would they have high self esteem?????
Everyone's self esteem is based off the feedback she gets from others. If someone was told they were UGLY by everyone they met would they have high self esteem?????
Yes. I think it comes from within and not outside.
Yes. I think it comes from within and not outside.
Whatever, I didn' have high self esttem until I got to college and girls were telling me how attractive I was after years of being told I was ugly in high school.
Come on, people... get over it. There is no "game". Your game or your actions are going to be interpreted in different ways by different people. There are men with very weird personalities getting dates all the time. And their "game" is simply that when a woman likes him, she just sees "original" where the rest of us see "weird".
I can't believe people can go this long without having sex or being in a relationship. There are so many overweight women out there who would do anything to sleep with just about anybody, even though if it is not the ideal thing, at least you could get some practice before you move on to the good stuff.
I have seen a couple fat guys who lost the weight, now they are playa-pimps, they are so addicted to females, trying to make up for all the time they wasted.
There can be no norm of personality, since all personalities are unique.
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Come on, people... get over it. There is no "game". Your game or your actions are going to be interpreted in different ways by different people. There are men with very weird personalities getting dates all the time. And their "game" is simply that when a woman likes him, she just sees "original" where the rest of us see "weird".
That's all there is. Really.
So, seven figure salaries and not the intelligence to desist from colloquialisms.
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