Would you remarry your ex? (divorce, honest, remarried, wife)
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Still married to my only husband. If we ever divorced, no because I don't think you can have a do over that works. But... We have discussed if we ever split up, having visits now and then for benefits lol.
Needless to say, the main reason I broke up with all of my exes is that they weren't intellectual enough for me. They didn't have an inquiring mind about life, and eventually they bored me to death. But they were basically good guys and they never did anything bad like cheat on me. I fell out of love with them because they were the same person I first met. Once I learned everything there was to know about them, that was it and there wasn't anything interesting to learn about them after that, so the excitement in our relationship was all gone. Meanwhile, I was constantly finding new hobbies and interests to learn about. And no way was I going to be the only passionate about life person in the relationship.
I can relate to this, growing up in a small town and then moving away to someplace far more urban. I broke up with my fiance when I was at college. I must have been 19 or 20 at the time. I dunno, whenever I came back to my hometown to visit, he just seemed stuck in the same place. Moreover, he never intended to leave said small town or really do anything exciting, like travel or go to college. He wasn't a bad person, either, and the gal he married is swell. But she's nothing like me. She's a SAHM who likes to scrapbook and watch American Idol and all of that banal crap. Nothing like me at all.
I've only been married this one time, but would I get with them again?
No...except maybe the last one...but she would have had to change A LOT. Most of our conflict was maturity-related. So maybe she's grown-up now...who knows? Who cares? I found someone way more compatible - the woman I actually married!
I think in my case, time has caused me to mellow. It has been a long time (over 10 years), and I almost think I would because in retrospect I can see that I was pretty immature and way too dramatic. I start thinking the situation was not as bad as I thought it was and I really bailed without thinking it through. Sometimes I think I was a much better fit w/my ex than I am with my current husband.
Then I creep around on facebook, see pics, and wow he has not aged well...also I either see an ex inlaw, or somebody will just bring up something about my ex's family and I realize how glad I am to be away from them.
I would give it a 51% of chance remarrying my EX...depends on how I feel that day.
I am still married (happily) to my husband but if something were to go wrong; I wouldnt imagine marrying him again. He would have become an ex for a reason noh?
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