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We took a walk tonight. I could not keep it to myself (my snooping). I was too upset.
His explaination: he took one out of the bottle to keep in his backpack (sort of like his man purse) so that he could "be ready" anytime for me even if we were out. We got back to the house after the walk and he showed it to me (the one pill unaccounted for). I asked him to take it out of his backpack and keep them all at home. He agreed to do that. We talked about the woman at work I worry about also. he still swears up and down that it is innocent. At this point I have to trust. There is no real evidence otherwise.
Yeah, right. And if your girlfriend bought a fresh box of condoms and you came home the next day to find the box opened and one missing, you would say, "She's just a girlfriend. It's not like it's adultery or anything like that."
That was exactly my point! In fact I used that analogy tonight.
I said:
Let's say that I was having a friendship with an attractive guy at work to the point that bosses and coworkers have made specualtions about us. Then, you find out that I brought condoms (intended for us) to work and then you find one missing. Wouldn't that make you wonder?? he had to agree that it would have made him wonder.
Gee, you sound like you own him. Frankly, it's none of your business. But you're a snoop who obviously is jealous of a missing pill, so you'll make it your business anyway.
I would talk to him calmly about it first. Counting Viagra is not hard proof that he cheated on you. I am young, and have no erectile difficulties, but I still tried an older friends viagra just to see the effects . I sure hope his wife wasn't counting them and noticed that pill missing, blaming it on cheating. He may have been wanting to pleasure himself one afternoon and took it. There are a number of reasons that 1 pill could be missing. Just ask nicely before yelling occurs ^_^
Gee, you sound like you own him. Frankly, it's none of your business. But you're a snoop who obviously is jealous of a missing pill, so you'll make it your business anyway.
We've been together 4 years, we are living together and have proclaimed faithfullness. I think his sex life is my business, if it had been sex with someone else.
We've been together 4 years, we are living together and have proclaimed faithfulness. I think his sex life is my business, if it had been sex with someone else.
Missy, let me tell you a story about some of us guys who on occasion enjoy the rock hard boost that Viagra and other D**K pills give us on occasion.
These pills can take 3-6 hours to get into the blood stream for maximum effectiveness. I have on occasion (more times then I'd care to admit) taken a D**K pill thinking "Oh boy, I can tell she's in the mood for love and I want to be prepared".
About 2 hours after I've decided I would take my happy pill, my wife comes up with something fickle that basically says "Not tonight dear... you've pIzzed me off, I have a headache or a multitude of bad excuses. So... here I sit just taken a Happy pill, momma decided it ain't happening. That's when I put her to bed, watch a little porn and enjoy the one guy who never says no.
That pill could have had your name on it but you'll never know and it's not proper to ask. But please talk to him and let him know before he takes one in the future to check your schedule 1st, and then don't get upset with him for asking. He could be asking someone else.
BTW, Cialis lasts like 2 days and takes a while to get into the system. That little pill really does require some coordination between the 2 of you.
Before anyone cracks SA remarks, there are plenty of 20 somethings that take the pill. They also like the benefits when they are planning a big Saturday night.
Also, maybe he loaned one to a buddy who is having problems.
We've been together 4 years, we are living together and have proclaimed faithfullness. I think his sex life is my business, if it had been sex with someone else.
I'm glad it turned out to be nothing. After four years, though, is there a reason you don't trust him? My first thought was that he took one to see what it was like and then just rubbed one out in the shower. Has he cheated on you? Why don't you trust him? Four years is a long time to live with jealousy and accusations ... it can drive people away.
Missy, let me tell you a story about some of us guys who on occasion enjoy the rock hard boost that Viagra and other D**K pills give us on occasion.
These pills can take 3-6 hours to get into the blood stream for maximum effectiveness. I have on occasion (more times then I'd care to admit) taken a D**K pill thinking "Oh boy, I can tell she's in the mood for love and I want to be prepared".
About 2 hours after I've decided I would take my happy pill, my wife comes up with something fickle that basically says "Not tonight dear... you've pIzzed me off, I have a headache or a multitude of bad excuses. So... here I sit just taken a Happy pill, momma decided it ain't happening. That's when I put her to bed, watch a little porn and enjoy the one guy who never says no.
That pill could have had your name on it but you'll never know and it's not proper to ask. But please talk to him and let him know before he takes one in the future to check your schedule 1st, and then don't get upset with him for asking. He could be asking someone else.
BTW, Cialis lasts like 2 days and takes a while to get into the system. That little pill really does require some coordination between the 2 of you.
Before anyone cracks SA remarks, there are plenty of 20 somethings that take the pill. They also like the benefits when they are planning a big Saturday night.
Also, maybe he loaned one to a buddy who is having problems.
Well said and advice taken. I appreciate the man's point of view on this. Helps me see things a bit more clearly.
About 2 hours after I've decided I would take my happy pill, my wife comes up with something fickle that basically says "Not tonight dear... you've pIzzed me off, I have a headache . . .
After reading this I started counting my wife's tylenol. 127 pills. Next time she uses that excuse I better find 126.
After reading this I started counting my wife's tylenol. 127 pills. Next time she uses that excuse I better find 126.
LMAO!!
Ok, now THAT was funny.
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