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OMG I've been single for so long, I forgot how many absolutely natural things are 'forbidden' in a relationship! Sometimes you just want to be selfish and take care of yourself without having to worry about the other person. It's a quick orgasm and it's GOOD for you!
Having said that, the thought of my man watching porn while doing it doesn't make me too happy, but I've learned to accept that (in my opinion) all men do it anyway. Nothing I can do about it.
OMG I've been single for so long, I forgot how many absolutely natural things are 'forbidden' in a relationship! Sometimes you just want to be selfish and take care of yourself without having to worry about the other person. It's a quick orgasm and it's GOOD for you!
Having said that, the thought of my man watching porn while doing it doesn't make me too happy, but I've learned to accept that (in my opinion) all men do it anyway. Nothing I can do about it.
Why is his solo jerking ok to you on it's own, yet bothersome if porn is involved? Do you feel threatened by porn stars?
Why is his solo jerking ok to you on it's own, yet bothersome if porn is involved? Do you feel threatened by porn stars?
I wouldn't call it threatened. I guess I'm (or used to be) pretty old-school and felt that my guy shouldn't watch other women have sex, but I'm a lot smarter and less naive these days, so it's no big deal anymore. I'd watch porn with my next partner if he was up for it.
Oh, I so agree!! That's why it's good to hit them up prior to their orgasm, kind of like me first or you don't get to have yours either so you can't give me that "I'm spent" crap. As one of my best friends says, I'd better win place AND show before it's even a thought in your mind!! lol... ^^^^ "You have 10 fingers and a tongue" is right!! Classic love it!!!
P.S. And to add to that, I'm even willing to supply one of my toys to "assist" if need be. But no getting of the hook altogether. I don't need you if the toy does all the work, can do that by myself.
It would suck if I felt like I had to actually remind my fella about MY pleasure. I seriously doubt I would last very long in such a relationship. Perhaps I am spoiled - my guy is all about me...and I am all about him.
Well that's a shame!! What are you waiting for? Get crackin'!!! If you don't want to I'll give you my address and you can just forward it over here to me and I'll put it to good use. In fact, I'm thinking of starting a charitable organization that accepts sex toy donations for the needy, pun intended!! lol
I have bought a selection for my Dw over the years, she puts each of them into a gym bag, and only touches the gym bag when we are moving. It has gone from house to house with us during my career [we move a lot].
Usually at each home we move into I go through the bag to check for old leaky batteries and swap them for new batteries. So they are all functional and ready for use should their owner ever wish to use them.
OMG I've been single for so long, I forgot how many absolutely natural things are 'forbidden' in a relationship! Sometimes you just want to be selfish and take care of yourself without having to worry about the other person. It's a quick orgasm and it's GOOD for you!
Having said that, the thought of my man watching porn while doing it doesn't make me too happy, but I've learned to accept that (in my opinion) all men do it anyway. Nothing I can do about it.
I am rather surprised reading along here about so many females openly discussing the topic of masturbation.
I had assumed that most porn is geared toward male viewers. And that most males who view porn would not be viewing porn if there were a female in their life available to them.
I am currently retired, my career was mostly in male-only environments often with long periods of isolation. In those circumstances I understand the male usage of porn. But now in my retirement, and being much more exposed to females in our culture, I am not sure of what to think of all this.
I think I can see where you might be unhappy about your husband viewing porn while you are available to him.
While I'm a red blooded male.... I do think this thread went a few clicks past PG13.
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