Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
i definitely agree that is it genetic. EVERY time i have tried to just bed someone, i always wake up all googly eyed and then i hate myself, think i am a ****- etc. i am a pretty open-minded broad but after a failed affair with a drummer for a pretty well known band (i.e. i brought him home a few times after shows)i had to admit that i could not deny my own hardwiring. sex isn't supposed to be only fun for me, it has to have some kind of meaning, and that means a relationship. i have tried to be openmineded about this and just go for a bonk but it always makes me feel like crap. genetics. can't fight it.
This is interesting. Sex never ends up being just sex for me. After trial and error, I know that I can never have just a one night stand unless I will absolutely never ever see the guy again. I just become too instantly attached even when I tell myself not to or that I don't even like the guy that much.
I have literally cried in frustration over the phenomenon which is stupid. Like, why am I crying over this dude? I guess its just too many hormones and my emotions go into overdrive.
The reason women apparently get more involved when they have sex with someone is because there's just a lot more at risk, even if your protected.
I agree. I don’t know if I could have sex with someone and then just walk away (much as I’d like to lol!!! ). I’d need something, some way of staying in contact with them whether it be a phone number or heaven forbid even Facebook, not because I’d want to see them again, but just in case something happened.
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.
Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
). I’d need something, some way of staying in contact with them whether it be a phone number or heaven forbid even Facebook, not because I’d want to see them again, but just in case something happened. 
