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Old 10-04-2010, 10:36 AM
 
Location: Most days I live on Earth!
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Exclamation One Night Stand

So last night I was having a very interesting conversation with a few people (girls and guys) and the question "what is the definition of a one night stand" arouse. The room seemed to be divided with opinion. Some said that a one night stand is clearly when you meet someone have sex the first night and never speak to them again. The other definition was if you meet a person and wait around one month (give or take) to sleep with them, have sex, but then decide after sexing you lose interest, that would NOT be considered a one night stand.

IMO a one night stand has to happen in one night because all you want is sex. If you communicate with someone for a while something is telling you, you may want to go further IF the sex is good, so that is not a one night stand.

What do you guys/gals think? This was a very heated debate last night, lol.
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Old 10-04-2010, 10:58 AM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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I see the point you made, and would pretty much agree with it.
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Old 10-04-2010, 11:24 AM
 
Location: a fantasy world
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I agree, meet someone have sex, say bye bye.

When you have all that talking you start to have feelings attached.
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Old 10-04-2010, 11:44 AM
 
Location: North of the border!
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Slam bam, thank you mam, goodbye. That's it!
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Old 10-04-2010, 11:55 AM
 
Location: maryland
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1 night affair.
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Old 10-04-2010, 11:56 AM
 
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Why is it called a one night stand when you don't stand, you lie down
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Old 10-04-2010, 12:11 PM
 
Location: a fantasy world
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Why is it called a one night stand when you don't stand, you lie down
I kind of like the phrase "one night bend over"
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Old 10-04-2010, 12:15 PM
 
Location: Most days I live on Earth!
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Hahaha, I am going to print these CD results for the naysayers! I cannot see how waiting a month to sleep with someone (even if that is all you want) could be considered a one night stand!
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Old 10-04-2010, 12:21 PM
 
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You ladies are making my face red...

I think a one night stand is just that, you spend one night with the person and they are out of your life. My question now would be if a month later you see that same person and do the same thing, what would you call that first date? I think it would be a one night stand that developed into an encore, or reunion or what?
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Old 10-04-2010, 12:24 PM
 
Location: My Private Island
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Hahaha, I am going to print these CD results for the naysayers! I cannot see how waiting a month to sleep with someone (even if that is all you want) could be considered a one night stand!
That would make it a thirty-one night stand wouldn't it?
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