Struggling to understand how he could hurt me and won't apologize? (NYC, like)

[mrstewart]

Originally Posted by struggling2010

How i'm going to heal myself is the issue right now

Perhaps you should call your local police or sheriff's department and inquire about some victim support groups in your area.

[virgode]

Originally Posted by struggling2010

How i'm going to heal myself is the issue right now

Are the two you still in contact with each other, when was the last time?

Is he contacting you or are you contacting him?

[struggling2010]

no. i last contacted him last week about wanting my things. i stopped though.

[mrstewart]

If you call the sheriff and explain the history they might escort you to the house so you can retrieve your things.

[struggling2010]

Originally Posted by mrstewart

If you call the sheriff and explain the history they might escort you to the house so you can retrieve your things.

good point, however the things i want to retrieve are a bit ... personal and a bit embarrassing b/c of it

[mrstewart]

Originally Posted by struggling2010

good point, however the things i want to retrieve are a bit ... personal and a bit embarrassing b/c of it

I doubt they go room to room with you...they are just there as a deterrent of bad behavior

[virgode]

Originally Posted by struggling2010

no. i last contacted him last week about wanting my things. i stopped though.

Aside from the ring he gave you and crystal rose you've mentioned are there other things?

[OngletNYC]

Originally Posted by struggling2010

good point, however the things i want to retrieve are a bit ... personal and a bit embarrassing b/c of it

Grow up. If you want your things, call the sheriff and go get them. There is nothing that you have that is special or unique. It's been seen before. Stop adding unnecessary drama to things. Don't be one of those women who thrives on abuse.

[mrstewart]

Originally Posted by struggling2010

good point, however the things i want to retrieve are a bit ... personal and a bit embarrassing b/c of it

I doubt you have anything in your home that law enforcement hasn't seen before

[struggling2010]

Originally Posted by virgode

Aside from the ring he gave you and crystal rose you've mentioned are there other things?

yes, but i don't want those things, the things i want back are things I got for him or rather for us.