Question for white girls: would you go out with an Asian-American guy? (boyfriend, love)

[Fat Freddy]

Originally Posted by Hasdrubal

Is it true about Asian guys? You know what I am talking about..

Yes, it's true.

And what they say about Black guys is also true.

But that stuff about White guys is just lies and racist stereotypes.

[RoaminRed]

Originally Posted by Fat Freddy

Yes, it's true.

And what they say about Black guys is also true.

But that stuff about White guys is just lies and racist stereotypes.

So white men CAN jump!?

[Tzaphkiel]

I am a white female, and yes i love dating Asian-American males. I love the color scheme, the warm honey colored skin and jet black hair. I love the smooth bodies and smooth soft skin. (I HATE body hair on a man). My first fiancee was a Hong-Kong born Chinese man and it was a very passionate relationship.

He was defying family convention, because he did not want to be with Asian women, his family pressured him to date and marry Asian woman, so he was defying his family and culture in asking me to marry him. I began learning Cantonese language. He was very adventurous sexually, so we were a good match in that department. He always wanted to date white women only. I find non-white men waaaaaaay more attractive.

As far as the penis-size thing, if the passion is there, there are always ways that are exciting for both people, no one's size or shape has EVER stopped me from enjoying someone I'm wildly attracted to. Depending a man's size and shape and girth, I just enjoy different favorite fun activities, for or*l and an*l a smaller penis is much more delightful for me. What matters most is the passion between two people.

[once-upon-chicago]

Been there, done that

[simcity]

Originally Posted by Hasdrubal

Is it true about Asian guys? You know what I am talking about..

Yep, it’s true. Once they go Asian they don't want no more Caucasian.

I’m half Chinese and half Caucasian and only date Caucasian girls. Not that I wouldn’t date Asian, there are just so few around these parts, perhaps being < 0.25% of the population. Although I’d like to find a half Chinese & half Caucasian chick; now that would be hot!

Some more facts about Asian Americans, the Model minority:
Some refer to Asian Americans as a model minority because the Asian American culture contains a high work ethic, respect for elders, high degree of professional and academic success, high valuation of family and education and religion, especially with Asian Americans from China to Korea. Statistics such as high household income and low incarceration rate[28], low rates of many diseases and higher than average life expectancy[29] are also discussed as positive aspects of Asian Americans.

This concept appears to valorize Asian Americans by portraying them as an elite group comprised of successful, highly educated, highly intelligent, and wealthy individuals, but it can also be considered an overly narrow and overly one-dimensional portrayal of Asian Americans, leaving out other human qualities such as vocal leadership, negative emotions, risk taking, ability to learn from mistakes, and desire for creative expression.

The model minority concept can also affect Asians' public education. By comparison with other minorities, Asians often achieve higher rather than lower test score and grades compared to other Americans [30]. Stereotyping Asian American as over-achievers can lead to harm if school officials or peers expect all to perform higher than average.[31]

Furthermore, the model minority concept can even be emotionally damaging to Asian Americans, particularly since they are expected to live up to their peers who are part of the model minority. Studies have shown that Asian Americans suffer from higher rates of stress, depression, mental illnesses, and suicide attempts in comparison to other races. [32] The pressures to achieve and live up to the model minority image have taken a mental and psychological toll on Asian Americans. [33] Yet Asian Americans tend to receive less sympathy from other people because it is assumed that they are the model minority and don't need sympathy, thus contributing to a vicious cycle.

[puffle]

Yes, if I wasn't already married and if I was attracted to him and he had all the qualities I look for in a man. Why not?

[endersshadow]

Originally Posted by RoaminRed

If he was built the way that I like my men to be built, then yes. Unfortunately, my preferences in size generally mean that Asian men don't fall into that category. I prefer men 6'4" or taller, and at least 240 pounds (not skinny and not fat!). Shallow? Maybe. But that's what does it for me, so that's what I get. Now, show me a nice Asian gentleman that's that size and we can absolutely talk.

Lol! I don't know any Asian guy that's 6'4 or taller. However, I have seen an Asian woman that might meet that height requirement!

It's cool to have standards. I have a height bias of not wanting a girl taller than me (which isn't common anyway). Not completely opposed to the idea but preference is preference.

[The Man in SATX]

Originally Posted by RoaminRed

If he was built the way that I like my men to be built, then yes. Unfortunately, my preferences in size generally mean that Asian men don't fall into that category. I prefer men 6'4" or taller, and at least 240 pounds (not skinny and not fat!). Shallow? Maybe. But that's what does it for me, so that's what I get. Now, show me a nice Asian gentleman that's that size and we can absolutely talk.

LOL I worked hard to get to the weight I am.. and I still dont meet requirements.. such a sad day for me . I miss your weight requirements by at least 50 pounds LOL I got the height.. not the weight!

[endersshadow]

Originally Posted by The Man in SATX

LOL I worked hard to get to the weight I am.. and I still dont meet requirements.. such a say day for me . I miss your weight requirements by at least 50 pounds LOL I got the height.. not the weight!

Those measurements are about equivalent to a linebacker in the NFL. Not just measurements, probably muscle mass too since she doesn't want a skinny nor a fat guy. Oh well.

I just want a short girl with 10 fingers. My standards leave me lots of options (of course these aren't my only requirements)

[cgarnett]

as a chinese guy, growing up in hong kong i don't think white girls are available here but being born in vancouver i have had limited experience with white girls :P

to the person who said all hong kong people are short, that is not entirely true, but u may have been going to the wrong places....there ARE some tall guys here especially in basketball camps but comparitively speaking we are shorter...lol well not me

on the lighter side of things:
isn't it ironic that....one of the best rappers are white? the tallest active nba player is chinese...the best gold player is black?


oh...and Kevin Garnett owns.