Question for white girls: would you go out with an Asian-American guy? (attracted, family)

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Originally Posted by DaisyLovIzzy

I am Chinese,have been with asian men,but would rather be with Caucasian.Easier to be with

Im 'kibbles n bits' (Japanese, French-Canadian, Hungarian, American) so I too, might consider it.

[gentlearts]

I wouldn't, but it wouldn't be because he was Asian, but more because I'm 5'11", and most Asian men tend to be little.

[Soju]

Originally Posted by Fat Freddy

Yes, it's true.
And what they say about Black guys is also true.
But that stuff about White guys is just lies and racist stereotypes.

Is this from personal experience? How do you so much?
Anyway, Trojan sells more magnam condoms in Scandinavian countries per capita than any other countries.

[esya]

I have been very attracted to Asian men, especially Chinese men. That said, I am sort of retiring or at least respectful, and it seems sometimes they are too, so.......this could be an impediment.

[RycherX]

As an asian american(vietnamese 5 ft 11 170 lb) guy, I don't feel that I was jipped in any way when pursuing white/hispanic girls. I'm happily married right now, but I will share my past experiences.
When I went to clubs, white/hispanice girls were always more obvious about their attraction towards me. I'd always either hook up or get a phone number from a non-asian girl when I go out, so I never felt that I was at a disadvantage. Based on my experiences, 33% of woman won't look at an asian guy, but a majority would notice based on personality and/or looks. The 33% do not bother me. So what if my white male counterpart is able to date 90% of the woman, including asian woman. That's life. It's not always fair.
I can say that most of the asian guys who complain are usually chinese american or taiwanese american. None of of my asian american (vietnamese, philopino, cambodian, thai) friends have ever brought this issue up and always had success with white/hispanice girls. I'd say that on average, south east asian american, though not as affluent, are not afraid of rejection. Like black men, we have no shame in chatting it up with a pretty girl.

[Jeff Jarrett]

So 66% of White women here are open to dating Asian men, yeah sure. Either most who voted are liberals with White guilt lying through their teeth or most of the voting was done by Asian male posters trying to boost their own confidence. If the majority of White women truely were attracted to Asian men, than the White female/Asian male combo in this country would be a hell of alot more common than it currently is at the moment. Not even in freaking San Francisco do you see a whole lot of Asian male/White female couples, let alone the rest of the country. The results of this poll definitely do not come anywhere close to reflecting reality.

[smoky_topaz]

I'd be open. They sound like nice company.

[miu]

My Chinese uncle married a white women he met at college. They were a very cool couple. He was a brilliant mathematician and she was a jewelry maker. They both loved the outdoors and Stalking the Wild Asparagus was one of their favorite books. They also hunted for wild mushrooms. She learned Chinese and much of her early jewelry was influenced by Chinese imagery. Unfortunately, he passed away unexpectedly about 25 years ago. My aunt has never remarried, he was the love of her life. Her family was DAR from Ohio. Her maiden name is Lee, which many assume is Chinese. Anyway, a Chinese male and a white female can be a great combination. But my aunt is an extraordinary woman and artist.

My boyfriend's Chinese friend is almost 30. He's got a FWB that is a white woman that he went to grade school with. She seems very fond of him, but privately he tells us that he plans to marry a Chinese woman and have full blooded Chinese children. He is very close to his family. Recently, one of his female cousins married a white guy and he wasn't very happy about that. I think that he's not happy that I'm dating my boyfriend, but while he's said something in passing to my boyfriend, he's never said anything to my face. If he ever does, I will tell him outright that I've never been asked out by a Chinese guy, so what's the big deal about it? I really think that my outspoken temperment and feminist beliefs are not suited to an Asian man. When I'm not at work, I tend to live in blue jeans, t-shirts and sneakers, and again that isn't going to appeal to an Asian guy. I'm just not that feminine or deferential.

I did watch an entertaining movie this weekend. Chow Yun Fat in Bulletproof Monk. And while I do enjoy him as an actor and I love his martial arts moves, two things really put me off. I don't find his face handsome... something about his lips, and I hate English spoken with a Chinese accent. But I suppose it's because I was born in this country, grew up on BBC productions and the rest of my family speaks perfect English.

[artsyguy]

probably not

[Jeff Jarrett]

YouTube - Why asian guys can't get white girls
I thought this video was real funny.