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Old 10-13-2010, 11:33 AM
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Location: Mile High City
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This is why I love my cat!!

Seriously, YG, turn the papers in. It takes two to tango and IT IS his kid!! Time to grow up and act like a responsible adult. Good luck
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Old 10-13-2010, 03:36 PM
 
Location: Baltimore
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They stopped making Toyota Celicas in 2005. Just thought I'd point that out. Back to topic.....
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Old 10-19-2010, 06:07 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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OK. I had to bring this back today, because I turned the papers in today!
I almost walked out, twice, but I thought about my son, and his needs, instead of my ex`s needs. I know that I did the right thing....he`s gonna have a fit though, when he finds out!
I just really hope that they don`t throw him in jail..its out of my hands now.
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Old 10-19-2010, 06:11 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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OK. I had to bring this back today, because I turned the papers in today!
I almost walked out, twice, but I thought about my son, and his needs, instead of my ex`s needs. I know that I did the right thing....he`s gonna have a fit though, when he finds out!
I just really hope that they don`t throw him in jail..its out of my hands now.

Seriously, don't worry about him being thrown in jail - he is months and months of noncomplicance with a court order before that would happen.

I'm betting he'll comply
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Old 10-19-2010, 06:16 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Seriously, don't worry about him being thrown in jail - he is months and months of noncomplicance with a court order before that would happen.

I'm betting he'll comply
Thanks loves....my mom is crazy...she said that if nothing else, I`ll be driving a new shiny black toyota!

Thanks for the encouragement from everyone who posted here!!!
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Old 10-19-2010, 08:23 PM
 
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yankeegirl313: What attracted you to this guy in the 1st place? Were there any warning signs when you dated him? Did you REALLY had the child on purpose or you both just had "an accident"?

The guy is a total jerk, but you women seem to choose them way too many times and are either clueless or don't care.

It's been proven that women do NOT think about a man's ability to be a father when they choose a man and/or sleep with him.

Cautionary tale for the girls out there.
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Old 10-19-2010, 11:04 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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yankeegirl313: What attracted you to this guy in the 1st place? Were there any warning signs when you dated him? Did you REALLY had the child on purpose or you both just had "an accident"?

The guy is a total jerk, but you women seem to choose them way too many times and are either clueless or don't care.

It's been proven that women do NOT think about a man's ability to be a father when they choose a man and/or sleep with him.

Cautionary tale for the girls out there.

Oh good grief - please provide a link to this so-called "proof", as I do not believe that bull for a second.

Even without realizing it most of the time women are looking to have sex with the strongest, most virile of men simply because from an evolutionary stand point they instinctively want the man capable of taking care of them and their offspring. That HAS been proven. Though all bets are probably off if the woman is smashed in the bar and goes home with some loser.


http://www.personalityresearch.org/papers/denisiuk.html

"Women will seek a mate who has resources to support their parental efforts"

http://smg.media.mit.edu/classes/Ide...umanMating.pdf
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Old 10-20-2010, 12:00 AM
 
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OK. I had to bring this back today, because I turned the papers in today!
I almost walked out, twice, but I thought about my son, and his needs, instead of my ex`s needs. I know that I did the right thing....he`s gonna have a fit though, when he finds out!
I just really hope that they don`t throw him in jail..its out of my hands now.

To the best of my knowledge, if he does not pay support, there will be a garnishment of wages and income tax refunds, seizure of checking accounts and personal property. Those kind of things. The interest and penalties are huge. He will learn fast.
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Old 10-20-2010, 08:09 AM
 
Location: Cumberland Co., TN
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Originally Posted by yankeegirl313 View Post
OK. I had to bring this back today, because I turned the papers in today!
I almost walked out, twice, but I thought about my son, and his needs, instead of my ex`s needs. I know that I did the right thing....he`s gonna have a fit though, when he finds out!
I just really hope that they don`t throw him in jail..its out of my hands now.
Good for you. I hope all goes well. Like loves said they will assess his financial situation and give him opportunity to comply. It will be up to him if he goes to jail. I hope he isnt too hard headed.
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Old 10-20-2010, 08:28 AM
 
Location: Cumberland Co., TN
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yankeegirl313: What attracted you to this guy in the 1st place? Were there any warning signs when you dated him? Did you REALLY had the child on purpose or you both just had "an accident"?

The guy is a total jerk, but you women seem to choose them way too many times and are either clueless or don't care.

It's been proven that women do NOT think about a man's ability to be a father when they choose a man and/or sleep with him.

Cautionary tale for the girls out there.
Honestly George do you believe there are quarentees with marriage. That ppl dont misrepresent themselves or change over time.

Do tell what the warning signs are that a man may become unemployed 10 yrs. down the road or that a man wont be a perfect father or keep up his child support payments or cheat or develop additictions or medical conditions.
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