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Old 10-08-2010, 08:53 PM
 
Location: lala land
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Default Guys Who Are Too Pushy

This is a big turn off. For all the guys out there, know that most women do not like pushy men! And when I mean pushy, I mean talking and hinting about sex even before a woman has really shown that she is interested.

I am not a prude by any means, but the only time I think it is appropiate for a guy to joke about having sex with me is when we are in the comfort stage of the relationship. By that time trust has been established. Any time before that and you just come across as perverted and disrespectful.

I am not bashing on men. If you're a guy, please just take this as some advice from the other side of the fence. It's ok to show that you are physically/sexually attracted. But there is a fine line between showing interest and coming across as a pervert, and you should not cross it!

Ok, I'm off my soap box.
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Old 10-08-2010, 09:01 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Guessing names are no fun!
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Old 10-08-2010, 09:02 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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Guessing names are no fun!
It's not me. I'm innocent
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Old 10-08-2010, 09:15 PM
 
Location: lala land
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Guessing names are no fun!
No one on here. Just something I had to deal with in the real world, ugh .
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Old 10-08-2010, 09:36 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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No one on here. Just something I had to deal with in the real world, ugh .
Where do you find these man ho's
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Old 10-09-2010, 01:08 AM
 
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Guys are either too pushy or not pushy enough.

However, if he's hot, who cares? You cannot afford to be picky then!
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Old 10-09-2010, 01:21 AM
 
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I say men need to be MORE pushy on the aggregate. I don't think your advice is prudent but I will consider it. But the of men i've seen rejected for not showing their attention in a prompt manner, far exceeds ones who have been too pushy...far exceeds.
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Old 10-09-2010, 01:29 AM
 
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I say men need to be MORE pushy on the aggregate. I don't think your advice is prudent but I will consider it. But the of men I've seen rejected for not showing their attention in a prompt manner, far exceeds ones who have been too pushy...far exceeds.
Women call it "confidence" but basically what they are looking for is a guy who has options and therefore treats them with something approaching contempt. Then they are scared that their g/fs will give them a hard time if he slips through their fingers too easily. So they are the pushy one.
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Old 10-09-2010, 06:23 AM
 
Location: At Home
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Some women want men to talk about sex right away...and if they don't they think the guy is "strange".

Some women don't want to talk about sex right away.

Everyone is different.

I'm with you on this subject.....a guy who rants on and on about sex is a big turn-off for me.

And, lol, some who brag the most, have the least to offer.
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Old 10-09-2010, 07:30 AM
 
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Gag. I am not a prude, and if the date is going okay, maybe if the moon is full...a guy might get lucky. But a guy who starts talking about sex, getting really pushy, is the biggest turn off...He will probably think I am the ice queen, because nothing turns the chill on more than a guy like that for me.
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