ARe peoples relationships and lives as complex as portayed on these boards or.. (Latin, social)

[SifuPhil]

[samston]

Originally Posted by kronenborg

here's a question...if someone doesn't like you, does that automatically make them 'not a very nice person', or have there been instances you can remember where, actually, there might have been something about you which made them not like you?

it's always easier to externalise blame.

Why should I care if somebody I don't know on some internet forum doesn't like me or not? Nobody has to like anybody else, who doesn't know that?

[kronenborg]

it sounds like a lot of people dont like you, whether on the internet or elsewhere.

i was just asking whether you automatically dismiss them all as bad people, or whether you have any moments of reflection and wonder whether there might be anything about yourself which turns people off.

i know the answer already...i was just trying to coax it out of you.

you can lead a horse to water...

[samston]

Originally Posted by kronenborg

it sounds like a lot of people dont like you, whether on the internet or elsewhere.

i was just asking whether you automatically dismiss them all as bad people, or whether you have any moments of reflection and wonder whether there might be anything about yourself which turns people off.

i know the answer already...i was just trying to coax it out of you.

you can lead a horse to water...

Your question makes no sense. I don't like them, hence my attitudes/behaviour
towards them.

[virgode]

Take a look at his post in the very same thread he called me on.
BTW, looks to be a troll thread after you check the history.

Originally Posted by kronenborg

it sounds like a lot of people dont like you, whether on the internet or elsewhere.

i was just asking whether you automatically dismiss them all as bad people, or whether you have any moments of reflection and wonder whether there might be anything about yourself which turns people off.

i know the answer already...i was just trying to coax it out of you.

you can lead a horse to water...

[samston]

Where was I rude or disrespectful? I simply said as I saw it. There were plenty of other disrespectful posts in that thread. Mine was calm, whilst most were along the lines of "get over it".

[virgode]

Originally Posted by samston

Where was I rude or disrespectful? I simply said as I saw it. There were plenty of other disrespectful posts in that thread. Mine was calm, whilst most were along the lines of "get over it".

Here you go with the circular argument, talk to the hand.

[samston]

lol... I don't care. My point stands, most of my posts in people's problems are not cold or insensitive.

Many posts in this thread outlined that you laugh at people's problems. I can't help but be myself, I think if somebody is suffering or in distress, it should not be downplayed. I think most people of healthy humanity would say so. Even if the issues are outlandish, so what? There is no normal in life, and situations are relative.

That's all I have to say now, this thread was worn thin.

[virgode]

Originally Posted by samston

That's all I have to say now, this thread was worn thin.

Its worn thin for you, who btw, railroaded the thread. Living in a glass house?

[MattB4]

Originally Posted by kronenborg

samston, id be very interested to know what you score on this: Autism / Asperger's Quiz

i hope you get a high score, because otherwise you really have no excuse whatsoever for your behaviours and attitudes.




ps im afraid i lied. i'm actually not at all interested.

Well darn!
I missed the cutoff by 1 point. That means I have no excuse for being a butthead. Seems unfair. Other kids get all the cool meds and sexy, hot therapists. I just get told to straighten out or else.

Problem with such simplistic evaluation tests is it is too easy to game the results. Especially with such a narrow range of response. Even being somewhat honest can result in vastly differing score by simply not being definite.