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Technically, an engagement ring is a gift given in consideration of marriage, so it should be returned. The wedding band? I don't know. But how much does a wedding ring cost, really? Is that all he wants back? Just give those things back to him. Whether or not it's "tacky" to use the stones and the metal for the new rings for his new wife -- that's for her to worry about, not you. His tacky behavior is no longer your problem, remember? Unless this is a substantial piece of property that you need to stay afloat, I say let it go.
I would tell him to bit me... The new woman could have his stones but not mine. U r not under any legal obligation to give him your rings. However, if you are going to gain something significant and the rings don't matter then use the thing he wants to get what u want. It is insensitive of him to ask for the rings and it sounds like he's bitter and striking out to hurt you where he believes he can. I am sorry u r going through this, but it does get better a little each day. Stay strong and keep your head up
About two weeks ago, my ex had the nerve to ask me, if I still had my wedding ring from our marriage. I told him, yes, that I made another ring out of the diamonds. He said he was thinking about it, and thought, if it was just sitting in my jewely box collecting dust, we could both make some money off of it..he needed to pay his rent.
Even if it was laying around my jewelry box, its mine.
I never thought about it, till he ask for it. I was the one who filed for divorce in the first place. I guess he is very hurt. Otherwise I don't understand it.
Technically, an engagement ring is a gift given in consideration of marriage, so it should be returned. The wedding band? I don't know. But how much does a wedding ring cost, really? Is that all he wants back? Just give those things back to him. Whether or not it's "tacky" to use the stones and the metal for the new rings for his new wife -- that's for her to worry about, not you. His tacky behavior is no longer your problem, remember? Unless this is a substantial piece of property that you need to stay afloat, I say let it go.
Technically the engagement ring is only to be returned if there was no marriage. After the marriage the wife is under no legal obligation to return the ring unless she wants to. However u r right when it comes to an engaged couple who breaks up
I don't know if the new wife comment is true. There is a permanent court order of non-contact. But he finds ways to get around it like with the lawyers.
And I do feel like is tacky
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