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Old 10-20-2010, 05:47 PM
 
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What if a good percentage of your relationship is satisfying, but your partner doesn't crave you the way you want to feel craved? And even when you do have sex, it's good, but predictable. Do you really leave a mostly-good relationship for greener pastures? Because they're not always greener. You'd probably be trading one set of problems for another. What does the un-craved person do??
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Old 10-20-2010, 05:54 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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It sounds like YOU should do something to rekindle the fire. That could be many things, from lingerie, to some experimentation, or even an adventurous vacation to get away from the usual, mundane, and predictable.
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Old 10-20-2010, 06:17 PM
 
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It sounds like YOU should do something to rekindle the fire. That could be many things, from lingerie, to some experimentation, or even an adventurous vacation to get away from the usual, mundane, and predictable.

Let's assume we've been there and done that. It's great for one day, then it peters out for a few weeks.
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Old 10-20-2010, 06:18 PM
 
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Second-ing TaoistDude. You're going to need to take the initiative. Focus on the sensual... emphasis on sens(e). An erotic message, a little tickle-n-tease can ignite a slow burn that lasts much much longer than going straight to "ze zex". Again, this will need to be initiated by you. Let hope your partner becomes inspired.

If you're content in all other aspects of the relationship, then it's worth the effort to try to work past what I hope is just a plateau.
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Old 10-20-2010, 06:19 PM
 
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When the fire is gone, I'm relieved. It means the Tinactin got rid of Athlete's foot.
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Old 10-20-2010, 06:35 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Find some gasoline (get kinky). Stop for a month, but tease each other everyday until then (if you can't get excited from being teased, you're SOL).

I forgot. No cheating either (Palmira or Roger Rabbit).
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Old 10-20-2010, 07:13 PM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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What if a good percentage of your relationship is satisfying, but your partner doesn't crave you the way you want to feel craved? And even when you do have sex, it's good, but predictable. Do you really leave a mostly-good relationship for greener pastures? Because they're not always greener. You'd probably be trading one set of problems for another. What does the un-craved person do??

Just the two of you, take a romantic trip to the beaches of Jamaica. Spend more time with foreplay, doing pleasurable touching, oral stimulation, to each other.

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Old 10-20-2010, 07:38 PM
 
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read a romance novel out loud and ask if he wants to try what they are doing in the book
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Old 10-20-2010, 07:44 PM
 
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I checked and you are female so go get a wig and dress differently and pretend to have an affair. Meet other places than your home.
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Old 10-20-2010, 07:56 PM
 
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you need a sexy lingerie , hah
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