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both guys and 1 of the girls were long term relationships.
the other girl was a 1 night 3 some that was potentially one of the most stupid things i ever agreed to...
(not because of the situation as such, though ive no interest in sharing anymore lol, but because he picked the girl and i barely knew her and it turned out afterwards that she was a straight jacket short of the assylum!)
my first relationship was at 19.
im 26 now and single with NO desire to be in another relationship anytime soon so that numbers not likely to change all that much in the next few years lol
Serious answers, for the most part...Im just curious what the consensus is...I havent been with more than 15...
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feel free to discuss how many one nighters you've had...
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type of girls/guys u sleep with.
I don't want to sleep with a girl, until I am married to her, as a beloved wife...
What do you think of 15 partners, do you guys think that's weird, could you do it?...
It's not my place to "judge" anyone, and a girl's past intimate history, is none of my business. I would be glad to date a nice girl who has been intimate, as long as she also respects my beliefs to *not* be fully-intimate with her, until she and I are wed, in marriage...
If there are girls on here, respond...I would like to know what the numbers are for an average girl...
Religion has nothing to do with this, just how you personally feel
I'm curious to know, for the high-numbers people, what the circumstances were with most of their partners. Was it:
(a) "supposedly serious" relationships (i.e., you call it a relationship, but never meet each others parents, only stay together for a month or two, then switch partners, etc. -- also called "serial monogamy"); or,
(b) "under the influence" -- some situation involving drinking or drugs; or,
(c) something else (what?).
Not being judgmental, I just think it would be interesting to know. I'm guessing most are (a) and (b).
^^^ I doubt (a) or (b) are common. I think (c) is likeliest overall (not that a or b don't happen, of course), with the reason simply being casual or recreational sex because they enjoy it and can get it.
The reason for me being able to be with alot of ladies when I was younger is very simple. I was a straight male in a female dominated industry. I was an operating room nurse. I was a single parent and many of the ladies were also. We were just company for each other. We knew there would be no strings. And alot of the women knew that since I had children of my own, I would be safe and caring around thier children. Not a very sexy story. I was truly lucky to spend time with alot of wonderful women.
I'm curious to know, for the high-numbers people, what the circumstances were with most of their partners. Was it:
(a) "supposedly serious" relationships (i.e., you call it a relationship, but never meet each others parents, only stay together for a month or two, then switch partners, etc. -- also called "serial monogamy"); or,
(b) "under the influence" -- some situation involving drinking or drugs; or,
(c) something else (what?).
Not being judgmental, I just think it would be interesting to know. I'm guessing most are (a) and (b).
Perahps I was looking for something more specific. My meaning was, if the majority of your partners tended to be a particular situation that wasn't (a) or (b) then what was it? Examples:
"FWBs - we were friends and we agreed to sleep together non-exclusively."
"I used to pick up people in the coffee shop."
"I used to be a lifeguard and met them on the job."
"I used to hit on my friends' moms."
"Online dates that were understood not to be marriage-track."
"Affairs with married guys/gals."
Or whatever. Don't be shy!
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