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Not really. He told you honestly what his intentions were. A guy isn't madly in love with you but tells you he doesn't want a relationship and that you aren’t part of his future plans. yeah that pretty much never happens. Why did you wonder? He TOLD you.
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I would get fed up, end it, and we'd keep our distance for a few weeks or months. Then one of us would meander back to the other and start the whole rotation over again. This went on for four years.
You got “fed up” with not being in an official relationship , but then went back to him. This told him that you will accept not being in an official relationship with him. You kept confirming that over and over every time you guys got back together.
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I was determined to move on... I purged him from my system. Mostly.
This word nullifies the previous words.
He’s a liar and a cheater too huh?
Every time you take him back you confirm that you will put up with his behavior. There are too many examples of this in your post to quote them all.
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We seem to work out big problems really well together.
Really??? Name one big problem you have with the relationship that you listed here that's gotten solved? If you two have solved other big problems together before, I guess that's nice, but they weren’t the big ones that really needed taken care of, or your post wouldn’t exist right now.
Is being with him worth all the sh*t you’ve been through? You’ve told yourself "No." to that question SO many times. So why are you still there? If you were going to leave and actually cut him out of your life completely you would have the 900 other times you had the chance to...Don't take this as b*tchy, take it as a challenge to prove me wrong and prove to him you aren't a sucker anymore.
Get your head out of your arse, girl. This guy was on ADULT FRIEND FINDER. He is banging other people. He is being nice to you because he's relaxed. He's relaxed because he's emptying his balls regularly--just not with you.
I know. I lived once in such "our" house. It was "ours," but somehow my name never got on the deed while his daughter's was on it! I'm sure it was just an oversight.
I know. I lived once in such "our" house. It was "ours," but somehow my name never got on the deed while his daughter's was on it! I'm sure it was just an oversight.
I was gonna let this go and not say anything. But how could you say something as vile as what you said? I mean, that was over the top nasty. How did you come to that conclusion? That he's having sex with other women?
Also, the "our" house you lived in, did he buy the house you wanted, or the one he really wanted? My man bought the house I chose. And he's giving me a lot of free reign (other than damnable hardwood floors) to renovate and decorate it as I see fit. I don't have great credit, and we are not married, so I didn't want my name on the deed. It gives me the freedom to move out if I want to and I don't want to be held liable. It was my idea.
So before you spew any more venom about how positive you are about my situation, aw forget it. It's not gonna matter. That's what these boards and forums are for; kneejerk reactions from armchair experts. Just like me.
Get your head out of your arse, girl. This guy was on ADULT FRIEND FINDER. He is banging other people. He is being nice to you because he's relaxed. He's relaxed because he's emptying his balls regularly--just not with you.
How did you come to that conclusion? That he's having sex with other women?
Maybe because Adult Friend Finder is a sleazy type of website where people go looking for casual sex
What else did you think he was doing on there? Looking for someone who shares his interest in playing scrabble?
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