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I was gonna let this go and not say anything. But how could you say something as vile as what you said? I mean, that was over the top nasty. How did you come to that conclusion? That he's having sex with other women?
Also, the "our" house you lived in, did he buy the house you wanted, or the one he really wanted? My man bought the house I chose. And he's giving me a lot of free reign (other than damnable hardwood floors) to renovate and decorate it as I see fit. I don't have great credit, and we are not married, so I didn't want my name on the deed. It gives me the freedom to move out if I want to and I don't want to be held liable. It was my idea.
So before you spew any more venom about how positive you are about my situation, aw forget it. It's not gonna matter. That's what these boards and forums are for; kneejerk reactions from armchair experts. Just like me.
If he has a profile on adult friend finder then chances is he is having sex with other women or soon will be. If you want to stay with the man that is your choice of course. But i feel rather than advice you were maybe seeking affirmation of the choice of staying which you had already made. I think personally it's a waste of life to be with someone who you are not really happy with, but it is of course your life and not mine.
Maybe because Adult Friend Finder is a sleazy type of website where people go looking for casual sex
What else did you think he was doing on there? Looking for someone who shares his interest in playing scrabble?
I was gonna let this go and not say anything. But how could you say something as vile as what you said? I mean, that was over the top nasty. How did you come to that conclusion? That he's having sex with other women?
Also, the "our" house you lived in, did he buy the house you wanted, or the one he really wanted? My man bought the house I chose. And he's giving me a lot of free reign (other than damnable hardwood floors) to renovate and decorate it as I see fit. I don't have great credit, and we are not married, so I didn't want my name on the deed. It gives me the freedom to move out if I want to and I don't want to be held liable. It was my idea.
So before you spew any more venom about how positive you are about my situation, aw forget it. It's not gonna matter. That's what these boards and forums are for; kneejerk reactions from armchair experts. Just like me.
Wow you really are clueless.
What she meant is that, if it were "our" house in sierra's case, her name would have been on the deed instead of his daughter.
You see, once the two of you break up, or if he were to unfortunately die prematurely, you will be out on your ass. If your name isn't on the deed, and you aren't married, you get nothing. Nobody will care that YOU picked out the house.
See, this is why he is very comfortable right now. You have no place to go. You will accept behaviors that sane, rational women would never accept. You own nothing. He can evict you tomorrow if he wants. Life is good for him.
I was gonna let this go and not say anything. But how could you say something as vile as what you said? I mean, that was over the top nasty. How did you come to that conclusion? That he's having sex with other women?
Also, the "our" house you lived in, did he buy the house you wanted, or the one he really wanted? My man bought the house I chose. And he's giving me a lot of free reign (other than damnable hardwood floors) to renovate and decorate it as I see fit. I don't have great credit, and we are not married, so I didn't want my name on the deed. It gives me the freedom to move out if I want to and I don't want to be held liable. It was my idea.
So before you spew any more venom about how positive you are about my situation, aw forget it. It's not gonna matter. That's what these boards and forums are for; kneejerk reactions from armchair experts. Just like me.
Huh...?! What in the world provoked THAT?!
Enjoy your house and your relationship! I'm done with it.
What she meant is that, if it were "our" house in sierra's case, her name would have been on the deed instead of his daughter.
You see, once the two of you break up, or if he were to unfortunately die prematurely, you will be out on your ass. If your name isn't on the deed, and you aren't married, you get nothing. Nobody will care that YOU picked out the house.
See, this is why he is very comfortable right now. You have no place to go. You will accept behaviors that sane, rational women would never accept. You own nothing. He can evict you tomorrow if he wants. Life is good for him.
Well she might live in a common law state so maybe not?
Well she might live in a common law state so maybe not?
It doesn't matter. I live in a community property state and was married. I was told by an expensive lawyer the appreciation of the house during the time we were married would be offset by the "rent" I would be otherwise paying...
It doesn't matter. I live in a community property state and was married. I was told by an expensive lawyer the appreciation of the house during the time we were married would be offset by the "rent" I would be otherwise paying...
Your name was not on the house however which makes it harder....but not impossible if you are willing to fight.
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What in the world provoked THAT?!
