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Old 10-23-2010, 09:07 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Explain how you "con dough" Raena. Do you knead it and then set it in a freezer to rise so it can't?
How did you know??? Are you watching me??!
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Old 10-23-2010, 09:09 PM
 
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All frivolity aside, this poster does appear to have a serious problem which is way outside the experience of most forum posters. He's chucked off all reasonable comments, has repeated himself incessantly and, as several posters have noted, has come across as downright creepy. Nothing anyone can say to him is going to alter his viewpoint. He absorbs nothing, hears nothing, heeds nothing and, in all honesty if I came across someone like him in my 'hood I'd be watching him very carefully.
Please. GTFOH. You probably wouldn't know who I was if you met me in person. In fact, you'd be surprised.
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Old 10-23-2010, 09:10 PM
 
Location: NYC area
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Omg women actually do this? Well honey yes I was a virgin I bleed didn't I? I can't believe women would do this. I'll be blunt the first time does effen hurt. Why in the hell would women want to do this to themselves. I just shuddered. Ewwww! Yet I do understand to conceal the fact that they got some while cheating on their religious partner,yet I don't con dough it. But this is low.
There are different variations on this procedure, one of which involves constructing an artificial hymen with an imbedded capsule of bloodlike substance -- I guess that one shouldn't hurt, but will still satisfy a "religious" husband with bleeding and an illusion of injury. What I can't believe is why women would want to get married to men who are so shallow and superficial, they value virginity over morality; or men so creepy, they derive sexual satisfaction from inflicting pain -- and especially men who can't give their wives the same thing that they so sanctimoniously demand from them. I would think a normal woman would have nothing to do with men like that, even if she met their standards by being a virgin.
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Old 10-23-2010, 10:13 PM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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Please. GTFOH. You probably wouldn't know who I was if you met me in person. In fact, you'd be surprised.
I'm sorry but I can only begin to imagine what GTFOH means. I'm a total dummy where all these texting acronyms are concerned. Oh, wait a mo' I think I got it and it's yet another nasty from you. Does it mean, "Get The Fudge Out of Here?" Correct me if I'm wrong but I simply don't really comprehend all of this nouveau-speak.

And you're quite correct. If I met you in person I wouldn't know that you were angerinthenation and thus would treat you as nicely as I treat everyone who crosses my path. If I had the opportunity to get beyond the facade I would feel exactly the same towards you as I've expressed in my contributions to this thread based on your responses and which I would suppose you'd eventually be forthright about on a one to one basis? Cheers!!
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Old 10-24-2010, 10:51 AM
 
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?????
I think it becomes unusual at around 25 and over. Not that there's anything wrong with chastity but it's just kind of strange.
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Old 10-24-2010, 07:17 PM
 
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Why should I pay for something entitled to me by the rules of nature? Everybody, well except for the rapists, molestors, pedos and those not old enough to know what it is, is entitled to sex. Why should I pay for it? I refuse to pay for sex. I would rather die a virgin. I guess you think we should pay for the oxygen we breathe. We already pay for water already.

Wait. This makes no sense. Your'e entitled to sex by the laws of nature? Hm, if I recall it correctly, only 60%(males) got to reproduce. But if you want to go further, we can get some articles proving that most females have a preference for the "Tall, dark and silent" guy.

Several of my friends are like that. Male models. They get sex as easy as drinking a glass of water.

See, they are entiled to sex. Because they are biological works of art. Human beings have sex for two reasons; reproduction and pleasaure.

What do you have? What can you bring? What can you offer to a woman? Women wanting to just have fun will have it with the good looking guys and with the bad boys.

Or are you saying that women, since they are smaller and weaker, deserve to earn as much as a NBA player because that's the law of nature; men provide, women receive?

Buddy, I don't get this at all. I'm 26 years old and a virgin. Do I feel like I'm entitled to sex? No. Why not? Because if I was designed to have sex, I would look something like Brad Pitt.

Am I saying that only Brad Pitt and his kind get laid? No, I'm saying that due to my status as an average male, I would have to put effort into having sex. What takes effort is tricky. Who's to say you get the woman you want, but you don't find sex to be nice? What if you see some other guy come along and have sex much easier? Why risk feeling bad, when you don't need the object of your desire?

Focus on what is necessary. Focus on what you are good at. Are you good at football? Pratice it, nonstop. You'll become a star. I have friends who were clearly born to be teachers. Others were born to be "porn stars". Others were born to be models and others were born to be lifelong virgins. And? Accept the role nature gave to you.

Why try? You're going to die. Have fun with what you can be and what you can get: easily.

Since I don't quite see the point of risking catching a std(the vast majority will catch HPV) and that I would probably have to use a condom(I've heard it takes away a lot of the pleasure) and that she might become pregnant, I don't stress about it. Find something worthwhile, like panting of writing. It will get your mind off your groin.

I have a friend in his early 20's, h's a virgin. He's always claiming to have gone to bed with tons of girls. I don't get that. I don't boast around, actually, I remember having a party girl trying to "harm" me by asking me if I was still a virgin.

Well, with so many young women hooking up etc, yes, lass. I'm a virgin. And I'll keep on being a virgin. That is, if I ever find an average looking(true virgin). I might consider having sex.

Another friend of mine is a 6'5'' male with blond hair and his face and body are perfect. He's perfect. And a virgin. Why is he a virgin? High standards. He looks like Dorian Gray; why shouldn't he wait for his equivalent? My father lost his virginity at age 25. Another friend of mine is a gym fitness coach. 23 years old. Tons of girlfriends. Still a virgin.

So? Who cares? From what I've observed, sex seems to be one of the most powerful drugs around. Do you want to become addicted to it?

If you need to take care of your sex drive, use porn. It dulls the sexual desire and keeps you from chasing women/wasting money/time/risking a std.

Yes, sex is more than likely far better than porn. Imagine porn as a quick recipe; it keeps you from starving and is very cheap.

No offense buddy, but by the law of nature, women are wired to go after the Alpha male. And that's what's happening. Accept things as they are. After acceptance comes liberty.

Oh, and I do have a lot of fun telling people I'm a virgin. To shock people is a lot of fun.

"Why should I pay for it? I refuse to pay for sex. I would rather die a virgin."

All males pay for sex. Do you think a car runs on water? That the restaurant is not going to charge for the food? Only a very few get free sex. You will never be one of those males. Unless you are the next Johnny Depp, you are going to have to pay for sex in one way or another.

I only had a relationship. She was young ,beautiful and a virgin. But she wanted for me to take her out, give her gifts and I wasn't up for that. I simply love my money way too much. I get a lot of pleasure watching it grow.

So friend, when you have a guy like me, with such a high sex drive, and capable of living fully well without sex, you'll realize that you aren't entitled to sex; its not necessary for the survival of the individual.

Therefore sex isn't given to you as a right.

You think about sex that much because of your sex drive. I'll assume you're a young man. Just kill that sex drive with lots of porn and masturbation. I've watched porn for so long that now I am no longer moved by it. In fact, I've lost all sexual desire. I've been off masturbation for a long time and not even the sight of an attractive 18 year old, all dolled up, can't work me up. You'll see that being a virgin is awesome, when your bank roll grows and grows, you don't have to deal with visits to the std clinic, nor will you have to work like a mule to pay for the alimony or for the child support.

Do you want to trade all of this just for some temporary pleasure?

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Old 10-24-2010, 08:09 PM
 
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No offense buddy, but by the law of nature, women are wired to go after the Alpha male. And that's what's happening. Accept things as they are. After acceptance comes liberty.
You make it sound as though women only go after the biggest studs out there. I don't know if you have noticed or not, but take a walk down the street and you'll see women with average to even ugly guys.
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Old 10-24-2010, 08:14 PM
 
Location: Pa
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You make it sound as though women only go after the biggest studs out there. I don't know if you have noticed or not, but take a walk down the street and you'll see women with average to even ugly guys.
Yep looks aren't always what is attractive to us ladies. We are not pure visual creatures.
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Old 10-24-2010, 09:12 PM
 
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You people are bugging out because I know that being a virgin will get ridiculed. Where do you people live and who do you associate with? You guys are obviously out of touch with what people's attitudes are today towards things.
This, and "my mom and I" and "wet dreams", and hurt feelings about being bullied at school, - point to the age of about 16 - to 19.

It is not surprising that OP can't comprehend what's been said to him here, haven't lived much life yet.
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Old 10-24-2010, 09:31 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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This, and "my mom and I" and "wet dreams", and hurt feelings about being bullied at school, - point to the age of about 16 - to 19.

It is not surprising that OP can't comprehend what's been said to him here, haven't lived much life yet.
My thoughts are the same, hes young, has little life experience with women other than his file of sexual encounters and I believe from the posts, a troubled home life.
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