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Old 02-25-2011, 01:21 PM
 
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At nineteen years, four months, 17 days, three hours and 47 minutes, EVERYONE shall lose his or her virginity or be labeled a weirdo!
Is that what I did wrong??? Jeez!
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Old 02-25-2011, 02:24 PM
 
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Who comes up with these rules? Do people have expiration dates too?
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Old 02-25-2011, 02:39 PM
 
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I think that at 20 most people who are normally social-skilled, looks ok etc have had something, either a relationship, had sex or both.
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Old 02-25-2011, 02:42 PM
 
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Who comes up with these rules? Do people have expiration dates too?
Yes, why do many question if hugh heffners past girlfriends was really attracted to him(rather than the fame and cash he presented to them)?

mostly because he's way past his expiry-date.
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Old 02-25-2011, 03:28 PM
 
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So what about male virgins though? I've read threads in here and seen women in here diss the hell out of male virgins. They're like I respect them but they can't talk to me because I don't deal with manchildren. Obviously, they don't respect them.
if you read the threads thoroughly you'll see it not because the poster is a virgin. why should anyone care about someone else's virginity? i guess in high school and college there's peer pressure to have sex, but as an adult if someone gets into your business you should tell them to go screw themselves
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Old 02-25-2011, 03:39 PM
 
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Whatever age you want it to be.
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Old 02-25-2011, 04:26 PM
 
Location: Some where North of South Jersey
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Damn I better get some before I turn 40!! Or else I'll be Andy Stitzer!!
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Old 05-01-2012, 11:13 PM
 
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I think that a guy should have had sex by 21 and that is a bit generous. I was 19 when I lost mine and I was the last one of my friends to hold out-I was ready!I am a woman- my BF was 21 and very experienced.
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Old 05-01-2012, 11:15 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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people will assume something is "wrong" with you (especially if you're not overly religious) after about 22 I would say for both men and women...it's nice to think that 'oh people don't care!' and 'it's not of their buisness b/c these things don't come up' -- too bad those thoughts aren't actually based in reality.
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Old 05-01-2012, 11:16 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Really? So you wouldn't bust out laughing or nothing seriously? You really wouldn't? Honestly. You wouldn't think that person had a serious problem or had issues with their sexuality?
Nobody cares. Just get on with your life.

And for those who think people will care, it's none of anyone's business. Lots of guys go through HS and college without having a relationship or sex. It's not as unusual as people think for guys to be virgins into their mid-20's. Some guys are shy. Some just don't find the right girl. Everyone moves to the beat of their own drummer. Who cares what anyone else has done, or what they think? And just fyi, OP, I've been on another forum where a couple of guys have posted that they're in their 30's and still haven't been in a sexual relationship. Don't buy into stereotypes. They'll only mess with your mind.
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