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Old 10-25-2010, 06:14 PM
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Even though I've never had sex, this is something I wonder. How can sex be good or bad? Sex is sex.
grasshopper, some times sex is not sex.

 
Old 10-25-2010, 06:21 PM
 
Location: Forests of Maine
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grasshopper, some times sex is not sex.
How is sex not sex?
 
Old 10-25-2010, 06:55 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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I don't think the things that make anyone bad in bed are gender specific (with the exception of the "preemies" who can't hold their load longer than a few minutes), the difference between bad and good applies to either sex.

- Unattentive
- Inhibited/timid
- No rhythm
- Squeamish
- Selfish

Some people just aren't very sexual, and no amount of coaching or experience will bring them around and make them a good lover. You have to enjoy sex and exploring your partner's body, and there shouldn't be any rush to cross the finish line.
whew, oh boy (fanning self) anybody else get a little hot after reading his last sentence.
 
Old 10-25-2010, 07:44 PM
 
Location: Forests of Maine
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whew, oh boy (fanning self) anybody else get a little hot after reading his last sentence.
No. I get that rush every time that some lady smiles at me though.
 
Old 10-25-2010, 08:09 PM
 
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whew, oh boy (fanning self) anybody else get a little hot after reading his last sentence.
Yessum!

Too many guys rush through it. I like to be kissed from head to toe, it’s so sexy.
 
Old 10-26-2010, 08:32 AM
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How is sex not sex?
Some times it can just be a business transaction
 
Old 10-26-2010, 08:40 AM
 
Location: Corydon, IN
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There are only TWO things which make any woman bad in bed:

1. A bad attitude on her part, be it selfishness, laziness, misandry, what have you.

or...

2. A bad lover in bed with her, one for whom sex isn't mutual, or who doesn't make it enjoyable, or is simply inattentive, selfish himself, etc.



Women LOVE sex, generally; all it takes is a man willing to put in some time and effort.
 
Old 10-26-2010, 08:59 AM
 
Location: Forests of Maine
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Some times it can just be a business transaction
Ok I am familiar with the idea behind those.

One person agrees to provide wealth or stability to another person in exchange for sexual gratification. Sometimes in a once-only deal and both parties walk away 'happy' with the exchange. Sometimes it is in a life-long business-like relationship, a partnership often called 'marriage'.

So how is this not sex?
 
Old 10-26-2010, 09:00 AM
 
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I was once going at it with a gentleman when he told me he wanted to urinate on me. That's BAD SEX!
No it isn't, it's a kinky little fetish
 
Old 10-26-2010, 10:16 AM
 
Location: My Private Island
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I was once going at it with a gentleman when he told me he wanted to urinate on me. That's BAD SEX!
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No it isn't, it's a kinky little fetish
Or it could be the sign of an overactive bladder
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