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Alright....where's my happy camper when I need him? first of all what's ##### are you cursing at me??!!
Second of all......did I say they couldn't be strong?? Being strong and being fit are two totally differnt things.........do you know what your 300 ib fat fit guy's cholesterol or blood pressure looks like??? I bechya anything it doesn't look that great.....I guess it just depends on what you believe "fit" to mean.....look, i'm not going to argue with ya first of all because i'm only taking this 1/2 serious......and also because I kinda like ya .....I just don't think fit and fat can be used to describe the same person at the same time within the same day.......
I like ya too, Lola.......I only cited strength as one of many components of fitness. You ignored everything else I said about aerobic and anaerobic conditioning as well, or the work of Gaesser, the exercise physiologist I cited. I think you continue to fall into that trap of appearance as opposed to performance. What do I believe "fit" to mean? Having a high degree of strength, flexibility, aerobic and anaerobic conditioning, and being able to utilize these measures to perform at a high level in your activity of choice.
As far as BP or cholesterol I will use myself as an example. My blood pressure at 6-0 and 300 was never above 110/72.........Even now I don't have cholesterol problems.
We will just have to disagree, because I know I was fit, and there were guys in my gym in better shape than I was (as well as in better shape than "thin" or "muscular" guys.) You don't think NFL linemen are fit?
I guess we're just gonna have to disagree on this one.........
One of my ex girlfriends could be considered a big girl. Ive posted about her before. She was 5' 4" and although I never knew her weight, she was probably around 160-170 but was the most athletic woman I've ever dated.
She was an extremely fast sprinter, she could run for miles, she would do 400-500 situps as part of her normal workout routine, she could do 25-30 pullups easily, and do back-to-back-to-back cardio kickboxing classes at the gym. She was in fantastic physical fitness shape, but you could consider her a big girl because of her weight. She was a very feminine muscular woman.
So to answer the OPs question on if I would date a big girl, YES, but only if she's a fit big like my ex. If she's a fat big then absolutely no way. Fat/obese women are just in no way attractive to me.
Love the fit bigs as I have been saying. Yum. I would have loved to meet her.
I have a friend who is very attractive but she's about 30 lbs. overweight. Believe me, she has her choice of men, when we go out, guy's will flock to her . Im always amazed by all the attention she gets . Do men just prefer a woman with more meat on her bones ?
Guy's what's your opinion ?
30 lbs overweight doesn't sound too bad and depending on her body type, it might not be bad at all. I weigh about 155 @ 5'5 and I don't look big at all.
Love the fit bigs as I have been saying. Yum. I would have loved to meet her.
Had she not been a crazy psycho super jealous bipolar talk-too-much woman she would have won the "become Mrs. DaBeez" super mega sweepstakes that soooo many women dreamed of winning.
Being fit, great in the sack and having a face like Diane Lane does not make up for being crazy.
Had she not been a crazy psycho super jealous bipolar talk-too-much woman she would have won the "become Mrs. DaBeez" super mega sweepstakes that soooo many women dreamed of winning.
Being fit, great in the sack and having a face like Diane Lane does not make up for being crazy.
daaaaaaaayummmmmmmmm.........a diesel Diane Lane?
.....but you are so right. I would have run away from that lady asap. Even though she was obviously great to look at/be in bed with.
How many entries were in that Become Mrs. DaBeez sweepstakes? You should have posted the number of entries on the sportsbooks so we could have bet the over/under......
I like ya too, Lola.......I only cited strength as one of many components of fitness. You ignored everything else I said about aerobic and anaerobic conditioning as well, or the work of Gaesser, the exercise physiologist I cited. I think you continue to fall into that trap of appearance as opposed to performance. What do I believe "fit" to mean? Having a high degree of strength, flexibility, aerobic and anaerobic conditioning, and being able to utilize these measures to perform at a high level in your activity of choice.
As far as BP or cholesterol I will use myself as an example. My blood pressure at 6-0 and 300 was never above 110/72.........Even now I don't have cholesterol problems.
We will just have to disagree, because I know I was fit, and there were guys in my gym in better shape than I was (as well as in better shape than "thin" or "muscular" guys.) You don't think NFL linemen are fit?
I guess we're just gonna have to disagree on this one.........
I didn't ignore it....just doesn't matter if the subject is still overweight with an unhealthy percentage of body fat. To me, that's not fit. And yes, there are some linebackers that I would consider unfit yes. I guess we will have to agree to disagree though because I know i'm right . My stance has nothing to do with how somone looks.....to me, it's all about BMI and percentage of body fat as well as many other things that don't have to do with looks.......
I don't have any preferences in women. She can be fair or dark-skinned, petite, a few pounds over, or fat. I'm attracted to all types of women -- It's just a matter of what catches my eye. I see overweight and fat women all the time that I'm attracted to. In fact, I saw one girl this morning who was about 5'3 and probably 40 lbs overweight. I was sexually attracted to her for these reasons:
1. Her shape
2. Her face
3. Her walk
4. Her breast
I don't envy any man or woman with strict preferences.
I didn't ignore it....just doesn't matter if the subject is still overweight with an unhealthy percentage of body fat. To me, that's not fit.
To you.........
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And yes, there are some linebackers that I would consider unfit yes. I guess we will have to agree to disagree though because I know i'm right.
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My stance has nothing to do with how somone looks.....to me, it's all about BMI and percentage of body fat as well as many other things that don't have to do with looks......
Right.......but BMI is fundamentally flawed, and methods of fat testing have huge margins of error.........you're right on looks though......looks are often not correlated with fitness.
I didn't ignore it....just doesn't matter if the subject is still overweight with an unhealthy percentage of body fat. To me, that's not fit. And yes, there are some linebackers that I would consider unfit yes. I guess we will have to agree to disagree though because I know i'm right . My stance has nothing to do with how somone looks.....to me, it's all about BMI and percentage of body fat as well as many other things that don't have to do with looks.......
If it's all about BMI, and it's impossible for a person to be considered both overweight and fit at the same time, and you're SO right about this, then tell me why BMI is known to be completely inaccurate for athletes....BMI scale calls them fat. Even gold medal olympic athletes.....fat......according to BMI.
I can't be with someone HUGE... they would break my skinny legs.
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.....I just don't think fit and fat can be used to describe the same person at the same time within the same day.......
. Im always amazed by all the attention she gets 
. My stance has nothing to do with how somone looks.....to me, it's all about BMI and percentage of body fat as well as many other things that don't have to do with looks.......