lost and lonely, Please help! (success, never, how to, love)

[NJBest]

pics? We can provide subjective feedback on you and your sister. Maybe you're wrong about your looks.

[mariagostrey]

Originally Posted by NJBest

pics? We can provide subjective feedback on you and your sister. Maybe you're wrong about your looks.

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im on the right she on the left.

[L.K.]

Originally Posted by mariagostrey

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im on the right she on the left.

Frankly, the difference is negligible IMO. You are both pretty.
Maybe it's a personality thing? Sometimes the person who is more outgoing, bubbly, positive and extroverted appears more attractive. I've seen it where a person of average looks has such a magnetic personality that the perception of them is actually that they are better looking than they really are.
Try to lose the envy and become the type of person that others enjoy being around. Being jealous and focused on your insecurities and inadequacies can make an otherwise good looking person not so attractive.

[Djuna]

How's Pakistan treating you? Or did you not move back there?

[NJBest]

Originally Posted by mariagostrey

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im on the right she on the left.

Thanks. It's not looks. You both got my vote for good looks. I must investigate further. I cordially invite the both of you to NJ so I can get to know your personalities and give you a subjective opinion.

[Opsimathia]

You just need confidence. I think you look better than your sis but she looks more magnetic from her personal energy. Find your own identity. There is more to life than men's attention and silly school crap.

[blondiel]

You are both pretty young ladies. Get over the jealousy of your sister and define the beauty that you have. You can do it; start today.

[poletop1]

You have to realize that you are very pretty and look a bit like her. As far as popularity, some people have less outgoing personalities. There's nothing wrong with that. Besides, attention is not always a positive thing.

[ans57]

To the OP:
In the picture...you both look beautiful!
The only difference is that...she looks open and approachable while you look so reserved and hesitant.

You have a more classic feature I think, than that of your sister, cultivate it and you're good to go.

[lilamx]

Two things: I agree with the rest that it's not about looks. You're both attractive but she has a different demeanor, she looks more outgoing and approachable. 2- It's so sad that as sisters, instead of you being happy for her achievements and proud of her looks, you get jealous. I have a sister who I consider way prettier than I am, but I'm confident with my looks too and I'm proud to call her my sister. Instead of resenting her, try to get along because you may not have her for very long and one day you may regret it.