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Old 11-01-2010, 08:27 PM
 
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I have a question for the OP: Do you find any teenage boys attractive?
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Old 11-01-2010, 08:54 PM
 
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I did not even like teen age boys when I was a teenager! I, for the life of me, cannot even wrap my head around female teachers who molest male students. Gross.
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Old 11-02-2010, 02:42 AM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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If you can foretell the future, why aren't you rich?


And you know this because you've personally spoken with every 84-year-old man in the world?

Seriously...please don't paint with such a broad brush. It's not conducive to a good debate.
I'm not 84, but while I might find 20-somethings physically attractive, that's not enough for me. I need someone closer to my own age.
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Old 11-02-2010, 08:15 AM
 
Location: Russian Federation
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I completely agree, and the fact that he acted on his attraction to the 13 year old AND confessed he wouldn't say no to a hot 17 year old now either, makes it harder for me to swallow. I am sure if that 17 year old confessed she was 15, even at his age, he'd still go through with it.
You know, i really sometimes think that it's the moralists like you with all your taboos, that make those sexy temptations so darn hard to resist. I mean, c'mon. People start having sex as soon as they can and stop when they die. They're having sex with each other, one on one, in groups, with the same and opposite sex, in a bunch of places, using a bunch of devices and with all possible age differences. Don't like it - don't do it. But don't judge people who do it, just cuz you were too lame to get laid at 13.
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Old 11-02-2010, 03:40 PM
 
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This really sounds like your hangup, not his.

When did I say this was his hangup? It’s mine and always has been.

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I have a question for the OP: Do you find any teenage boys attractive?


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I did not even like teen age boys when I was a teenager! I, for the life of me, cannot even wrap my head around female teachers who molest male students. Gross.

I’m the same. When I was a teenager I was attracted to men who were at least in their early 20’s.

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Don't like it - don't do it. But don't judge people who do it, just cuz you were too lame to get laid at 13.

Aaaah such an admirable aspiration.

I am female. A female who grew up in a street full of boys. I could have gotten laid anytime, believe me. I chose to have a little more self respect.

This is a good friend of mine and I was just shocked that he did this with someone so young. I am not a prude by any stretch of the imagination, but 13 is a child. I thought, knowing him, he would have been wiser than that.

Believe it or not I am trying really hard here. He is one of my dearest friends. My partner is 15 years my senior after all!
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Old 11-02-2010, 03:44 PM
 
Location: Anchorage, Ak
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It was a bad decision, but he was only 17 and it was 13 years ago. I question his judgement in sharing that with you, especially if he's trying to justify it, but I don't think it makes him some sort of creep.
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Old 11-02-2010, 03:49 PM
 
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So what’s the general consensus of this thread? Just yeses or nos, please.

Do you think it was ok for him to fk a 13 year old?

AM I overeacting?

Where to from here? I know he's not a creep, I still love him (as a friend).
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Old 11-02-2010, 04:01 PM
 
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When he was 17, was it okay to fk a 13 year old? It is not that black and white. It depends on the situation, the girl, there are many variables in that scenario. So...I will say it was okay. After all, I was 14 when I was out with a 25 year old...and I did not look 14 or "act" 14.
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Old 11-02-2010, 04:11 PM
 
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I was 14 when I was out with a 25 year old...and I did not look 14 or "act" 14.
I still don’t understand why people still believe this somehow makes things ok? If this was the case, wouldn’t everyone who was arrested for breaking the law and sleeping with a minor use this as their defence?

The fact is whether they look it or act it, they are!

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Old 11-02-2010, 04:17 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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So what’s the general consensus of this thread? Just yeses or nos, please.

Do you think it was ok for him to fk a 13 year old?

AM I overeacting?

Where to from here? I know he's not a creep, I still love him (as a friend).
I've answered. Yes...with the caveat that he did so at the age of 17, when he himself was still a child.
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