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Old 11-12-2010, 10:45 AM
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Location: the west side of "paradise"
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Hehe. Well, she's mentioned to me that she hasn't really experienced the more "American" dance club scene since she's used to her little Bachata bars. So I think I'm going to ask if she wants to go dancing this weekend or something. Then maybe, you know, if all goes well...go to bed

Geez, I thought you were a gentleman. From afraid to give your # out to bed? Based on looks alone? You need to grow up alittle. You don't like her, but what she can provide YOU! I wish I could warn her not all american males want just that.
You don't even KNOW her. Really.
Being a gentleman will get you alot further than 1 roll in the hay, that you can do the dirty by yourself.
Respect & getting to know someone gets you a better time if and when you do decide, mutually, to "roll the hay", one time.

So seeing your last post, I now retract my well wishes.
THE END!
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Old 11-12-2010, 11:01 AM
 
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i agree with above poster ^, i hope you were joking. Take a sincere interest in this girl and she'll appreciate that. I hope your not just looking for a cute girl to sleep with.
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Old 11-12-2010, 11:12 AM
 
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hey it's hard not to think about sex when you meet someone new who is, well, a complete stranger.
Magnetism is the attraction factor here!

He's excited, give the poor boy a break! lol
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Old 11-12-2010, 11:16 AM
 
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I am not sure if there's a high possibility of her calling you. Girls generally prefer guys to take the initiative, take them out, someone who will take care of her, and so on. But if she calls you, cool.
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Old 11-12-2010, 05:26 PM
 
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I agree with victor and B4U.

Maybe I'm a prude, but I disapprove of sleeping with people you've only just met. I don't see anything positive that can come out of that in the long run.

Just because she wants to dance doesn't mean that she wants to have sex. Make your hormones settle down, and keep your honor. It's the best way to be, and the safest. All kinds of bad stuff can happen from having sex with people you don't really know. I know lots of people do it, but lots of people experience all that bad stuff because of it.
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Old 11-12-2010, 05:30 PM
 
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hey it's hard not to think about sex when you meet someone new who is, well, a complete stranger.
Magnetism is the attraction factor here!

He's excited, give the poor boy a break! lol
It is true that the sexual attraction is warranted. But actually having sex with complete strangers is in my opinion a very bad decision to make.

To be a gentleman, the OP needs to be the master of his hormones, not let them make his decisions for him.

I hope (and honestly believe) that the "maybe to bed" part of his post was tongue-in-cheek. The problem is that there are far too many people, however, for whom this is not a joke. They like having sex with strangers, and doing that is just asking for trouble, in my opinion.
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