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Hahaha, well, I agree with you, might be hard to find one the that satisfies all those requirements, as for myself, i am politically and culturally very liberal, would be happy to have a woman who has an equal say in matters, in fact, appreciate it very much.
I have no qualms about race, I am Indian myself, tanned and fit, workout everyday, intellectually appealing and can discuss on a wide variety of topics, around 5'10" and weight 180 lbs, make more than a 100k per year, drive a Lexus, I just don't know why just the fact that I am of a particular race becomes such a deal breaker. Also, it's not like I am looking for supermodels, I rather prefer the average looking one's, they are humble and more grounded, a few pounds extra wouldn't be a deal breaker either, I just don't know why it isn't working for me, I am just guessing it's my race, nothing to do with me as a person. And that depresses me quite a lot to be honest because I can do nothing about it.
I don't consider race when dating. The overwhelming majority of Jewish men are white, but not all are. If a man met my minimum conditions and wasn't white, I wouldn't care. Note that "white" isn't on the list.
There have been several threads about "nice guys finishing last." I thought I'd start a thread about women. Do you think that "nice women finish last?" Just curious....
no, i don't.
"Nice guy", in the context of that statement, means a guy who is a pushover.
I don't think that women benefit from being pushovers, exactly, but I do believe that the consequences are not nearly as severe for them. Men who are pushovers are basically loathed by every segment of society.
There have been several threads about "nice guys finishing last." I thought I'd start a thread about women. Do you think that "nice women finish last?" Just curious....
No you reject normal guys, take an a-hole every once in a while, end up 30+ years of age single and complain there aren't any nice guys out there.
Well its funny because women say they want a nice respectable guy but the truth is they want a guy who is confident, hard to catch, and a bit of a douche. As a man if a girl came along and wasn't "nice" it would depend on in what context. If she was just bitchy I could look past it but if she was just full blow rude and acted like she was the center of the universe then we have problems.
No being a nice girl is the best way to attract a good man, so its definitely a good trait for women. In a very sexual culture I think too many women start out believing being overly sexual and suggestive is the way to find a man, but over time find out the best way is to be nice and dress classy.
I figured "nice guys finish last" wasn't gender specific -- it's a piece of advice generally reckoned to be about being assertive and not letting others taking advantage of you or being a pushover, in relationships or otherwise.
yes yes and YES nice women do finish last! for all the clowns out there-- men who whine about how women claim to want 'nice guys' but only want 'abusers'...which is so true.....the real TRUTH is that most men HATE nice women and love game playing cheating psycho abusive controlling b*tches to no end.....basically....every guy I ever meet...if I tell him my ex abused me...or while I was being abused, got abused by those guys too "oh u LIKE abuse" "why do u STAY with him", "u probably LIKE that he abuses you"....thats b/c these morons are chasing the b*tchy women who like the abusive men...or the messed up women who do...adn blaming it on all other women...
then when they meet a really NICE girl...they abuse and manipulate her...not only for the women who manipulated and used them, but b/c deep down they dont even WANT a nice girl...they want a player loser low life b/c they are insecure and can't handle a confident secure girl...they want a girl who is screwed up...and more screwed up than them....(lots of guys anyway)...so they abuse and reject the nice girl, go out searching more for the psycho women and then keep b8tching when they find psycho women dating other a**holes and not them...(they call themselves nice guys but they're not)....its a warped twisted cycle going on out there...but most guys do not like nice women....and just abuse and walk all over them...
I know b/c im a nice girl and ive been single all my life...and not manipulative, dont play games etc...
and its not the 'challenge' most of these fake game playing idiots are interested in. So if you want to get a guy-- just be a psycho weirdo....dont be normal...it'll make them feel more secure, and confident and they'll probably chase you, buy you an expensive ring, while you're cheating on them with their best friend....and theyre raving about what a wonderful catch you are and how lucky they are...how most stupid men function these days....then they'll get hurt, you two will break up...then they'll go out looking to use some "NICE GIRL" for how they got used by psycho girl....and also make suer to not get the nice girl anything and treat her like dirt...and then bail on her...this is how guys are in today's society, its a whacked horrible place....
I'm sorry. This is the biggest load of bull I have ever read. I WISH it was this way.
yes yes and YES nice women do finish last! for all the clowns out there-- men who whine about how women claim to want 'nice guys' but only want 'abusers'...which is so true.....the real TRUTH is that most men HATE nice women and love game playing cheating psycho abusive controlling b*tches to no end.....basically....every guy I ever meet...if I tell him my ex abused me...or while I was being abused, got abused by those guys too "oh u LIKE abuse" "why do u STAY with him", "u probably LIKE that he abuses you"....thats b/c these morons are chasing the b*tchy women who like the abusive men...or the messed up women who do...adn blaming it on all other women...
then when they meet a really NICE girl...they abuse and manipulate her...not only for the women who manipulated and used them, but b/c deep down they dont even WANT a nice girl...they want a player loser low life b/c they are insecure and can't handle a confident secure girl...they want a girl who is screwed up...and more screwed up than them....(lots of guys anyway)...so they abuse and reject the nice girl, go out searching more for the psycho women and then keep b8tching when they find psycho women dating other a**holes and not them...(they call themselves nice guys but they're not)....its a warped twisted cycle going on out there...but most guys do not like nice women....and just abuse and walk all over them...
I know b/c im a nice girl and ive been single all my life...and not manipulative, dont play games etc...
and its not the 'challenge' most of these fake game playing idiots are interested in. So if you want to get a guy-- just be a psycho weirdo....dont be normal...it'll make them feel more secure, and confident and they'll probably chase you, buy you an expensive ring, while you're cheating on them with their best friend....and theyre raving about what a wonderful catch you are and how lucky they are...how most stupid men function these days....then they'll get hurt, you two will break up...then they'll go out looking to use some "NICE GIRL" for how they got used by psycho girl....and also make suer to not get the nice girl anything and treat her like dirt...and then bail on her...this is how guys are in today's society, its a whacked horrible place....
This post is offensive on so many levels.... don't know where to begin.....
No, not "nonsense", but a tirade from someone who is bitter and has obviously been used. I am nice, and alone. For some reason, I end up with men who are not nice, and just add too much drama to my life. I prefer a dull, boring, lonely life to the insanity of being with a selfish man. You can only be used if you let yourself be treated that way. I am happy with my cat.
No, not "nonsense", but a tirade from someone who is bitter and has obviously been used. I am nice, and alone. For some reason, I end up with men who are not nice, and just add too much drama to my life. I prefer a dull, boring, lonely life to the insanity of being with a selfish man. You can only be used if you let yourself be treated that way. I am happy with my cat.
I'll stick with nonsense.....
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