Do "nice women finish last" too? (girlfriends, married, family)

[wanderlust76]

Physical attraction is important so if she's nice but doesn't make my motor warm up the fact that she's nice isn't enough to make me want to be more than friends with her.

[BajanYankee]

First, I think we need to define what "finishing last" means. For a guy, that means you get no action whatsoever--no kisses, no cookie...just platonic hugs and three pats on the back. The object of his desire then gives her heart (and her cookie) away to the badboy who cycles through women like underwear and gets into bar fights on the regular.

For a girl, I guess "finishing last" means that a guy broke her heart. But in most cases, the guy breaks every girl's heart, so it's not like she's truly "finishing last." He's pumping and dumping nice girls and bad girls alike. In the scenario where one guy leaves a "nice girl" for a "bad girl," the "bad girl" will be significantly hotter than the "nice girl" 100% of the time.

"Nice girls" who look like Rachel McAdams just don't sit at home on Friday nights crying about how they can't get dates because they're "too nice."

[BajanYankee]

The Dark Lord speaks the Truth: Why Women Get Cheated On « Citizen Renegade

Here is the truth. Women get cheated on for four reasons, three of which they are complicit in their own betrayal.

1. They have stopped catering to a man’s desire. Women who choose to get fat or withhold sex are ripe candidates for being cheated on. A man who is driven to cheating by his fat, frigid wife has my sympathies.
2. They tingle for *******s. About 1/3 of women — usually the hottest chicks — have an irresistible urge to copulate with *******s, jerks, thugs and other assorted aloof cads. (Another 1/3 are susceptible to the *******’s charms but are occasionally capable of eschewing the blind cravings of their vaginas.) Naturally, the *******s cheat. These women then cry foul, but they have invited betrayal into their lives. Their pain was prophesied the moment they spread their legs.
3. They shoot out of their league. I would tell a woman: You want to date an alpha one or more points higher than you? Prepare to be betrayed at some future date, said date which will be sooner rather than later if he’s considerably higher value than what you could be expected to get. More than a few women are OK with this trade-off.
4. Men like variety. Women have no control over this. Men are programmed to enjoy the hunt, and to experience pleasure from a multitude of *****, and men with options are able to fulfill that desire. The best women can do to counter this manly impulse is to be young and hot.

[samston]

It depends what one means by nice.

the common definition is nice is a total crock. A healthy person is not a doormat, nor lets people advantage them or be submissive. Being charitable is a quality that, ideally, all should demonstrate. Nonetheless, a weak person is passive and overly accommodating, and I wouldn't touch a woman like this with a ten foot barge pole.

If nice is meant by kindliness, charity, etc., then yes, I'd say this was a major dating hand in her favour. In the end though, there are no dating rules. I think the idea of nice woman is not the same as the nice guy. I think in our society, despite greater gender equality, men are seen to and to a degree are supposed to lead. An accommodating men seems too passive and frankly unmanly, which is why he is toast in the dating world. In my opinion, he is to rightfully.

[Veyron]

Guys judge on physical appearance. Wether she's nice or not it really doesn't matter.
It's all about her physical assets. If she's nice its a plus.

Nice women finish first as long as she's attractive. Nice women end up as the wife and her more promiscous counterpart ends up as the mistress.

Show me a guy that chases after bad girls and Ill show you an idiot.

Most bad women know how to conceal there bad nature when dating a guy they want. Most of the time guys are tricked into thinking they are dating a nice girl when in reality they wifed up medusa.

[donie1]

I think that the nice girls in bad relationships finish last but in the end, they find the right person. The nice girls in relationships that turn them into the friends zone is also not the relationship for them. When the timing is right, the nice girls find the relationship that is best for them.

Just like the nice guy, I think the nice girl has to have patience and eventually they will find a truer love then the boneheads that find love easily.

[itshim]

Last? No...but they aren't finishing first either.

That much I will admit.

[CarolVa1977]

Originally Posted by BajanYankee

The Dark Lord speaks the Truth: Why Women Get Cheated On « Citizen Renegade


Here is the truth. Women get cheated on for four reasons, three of which they are complicit in their own betrayal.

1. They have stopped catering to a man’s desire. Women who choose to get fat or withhold sex are ripe candidates for being cheated on. A man who is driven to cheating by his fat, frigid wife has my sympathies.
2. They tingle for *******s. About 1/3 of women — usually the hottest chicks — have an irresistible urge to copulate with *******s, jerks, thugs and other assorted aloof cads. (Another 1/3 are susceptible to the *******’s charms but are occasionally capable of eschewing the blind cravings of their vaginas.) Naturally, the *******s cheat. These women then cry foul, but they have invited betrayal into their lives. Their pain was prophesied the moment they spread their legs.
3. They shoot out of their league. I would tell a woman: You want to date an alpha one or more points higher than you? Prepare to be betrayed at some future date, said date which will be sooner rather than later if he’s considerably higher value than what you could be expected to get. More than a few women are OK with this trade-off.
4. Men like variety. Women have no control over this. Men are programmed to enjoy the hunt, and to experience pleasure from a multitude of *****, and men with options are able to fulfill that desire. The best women can do to counter this manly impulse is to be young and hot.

I thought that guy was like 42 living in a little Studio in Arlington hahaha..

Hardly an alpha male, was not him the one who works in some type of financial institution in dc? He was outed last year.

Not hating. Just saying.

[donie1]

Originally Posted by BajanYankee

The Dark Lord speaks the Truth: Why Women Get Cheated On « Citizen Renegade

Here is the truth. Women get cheated on for four reasons, three of which they are complicit in their own betrayal.

1. They have stopped catering to a man’s desire. Women who choose to get fat or withhold sex are ripe candidates for being cheated on. A man who is driven to cheating by his fat, frigid wife has my sympathies.
2. They tingle for *******s. About 1/3 of women — usually the hottest chicks — have an irresistible urge to copulate with *******s, jerks, thugs and other assorted aloof cads. (Another 1/3 are susceptible to the *******’s charms but are occasionally capable of eschewing the blind cravings of their vaginas.) Naturally, the *******s cheat. These women then cry foul, but they have invited betrayal into their lives. Their pain was prophesied the moment they spread their legs.
3. They shoot out of their league. I would tell a woman: You want to date an alpha one or more points higher than you? Prepare to be betrayed at some future date, said date which will be sooner rather than later if he’s considerably higher value than what you could be expected to get. More than a few women are OK with this trade-off.
4. Men like variety. Women have no control over this. Men are programmed to enjoy the hunt, and to experience pleasure from a multitude of *****, and men with options are able to fulfill that desire. The best women can do to counter this manly impulse is to be young and hot.

Who in the sh%t is the Dark Lord? and what complete nonsense you list.

[CarolVa1977]

Originally Posted by donie1

Who in the sh%t is the Dark Lord? and what complete nonsense you list.

It is a guy named Roissy that lives in DC and claims to be an alpha male... but in reality is like a creepy 46 year old that still is single living alone in Arlington. His blog is mysogenist to say the least. Hate speech is more likely.