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Old 11-17-2010, 03:03 PM
 
Location: colorado
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Default Desperate

I recently met this guy..He started acting too desperate...Im all for sex and enjoy it too..but I dont act like Im desperate
So I told him not to act so desperate..its a turn off..first show me your qualities..a confident man is very sexy...
So there will be no further getting to know each other...
Maybe he thought if he tried hard I'd be interested..??
Desperate appears needy, needy is clingy, clingy just suffocates, suffocates mean death..
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Old 11-17-2010, 03:08 PM
 
Location: Vegas, baby, Vegas!
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Some guys get desperate if they feel like they are 'losing' the person.
maybe re-assure him your not going anywhere and he may feel comfortable again.
talk frankly to him, as strange as this sounds, most men need re-assurance that they are not
screw-ups (I had to change the word) and need to be told, they are loved.

Jonathan
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Old 11-17-2010, 03:08 PM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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And your question/problem is?
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Old 11-17-2010, 03:19 PM
 
Location: colorado
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Some guys get desperate if they feel like they are 'losing' the person.
maybe re-assure him your not going anywhere and he may feel comfortable again.
talk frankly to him, as strange as this sounds, most men need re-assurance that they are not
screw-ups (I had to change the word) and need to be told, they are loved.

Jonathan

Jonathan..Yes he maybe loved..but not from me..not the first day I met him..He did have intelligence...He should have let his intelligence shine thru..
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Old 11-17-2010, 04:17 PM
 
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he's insecure in his relationships, always scared of "losing" the person when there was nothing to warrant it. Id advise to leave him as this will always be a problem and will be super annoying.
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Old 11-17-2010, 04:21 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Jonathan..Yes he maybe loved..but not from me..not the first day I met him..He did have intelligence...He should have let his intelligence shine thru..
Too bad you didn`t give him a chance to show you how "intelligent" he was!
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Old 11-25-2010, 08:42 AM
 
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You say you just met him? good for you for telling him what you did...If the game is over ,,we all know what he was really after .don't we, had you had sex with him, he most probably would have moved on anyways.....sounds like he just wanted another knotch in his belt..
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Old 11-25-2010, 08:58 AM
 
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Originally Posted by jeepgirl27 View Post
I recently met this guy..He started acting too desperate...Im all for sex and enjoy it too..but I dont act like Im desperate
So I told him not to act so desperate..its a turn off..first show me your qualities..a confident man is very sexy...
So there will be no further getting to know each other...
Maybe he thought if he tried hard I'd be interested..??
Desperate appears needy, needy is clingy, clingy just suffocates, suffocates mean death..
Are you aware that intercourse is designed to bond a man and a woman together / to cement a relationship from the sharing of the deepest part of your Souls ? Its only going to heighten clingyness . Intercourse is much more than penis and vagina having a rendevous ... but lust hides the true reality .
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Old 11-25-2010, 10:44 PM
 
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Originally Posted by jeepgirl27 View Post
I recently met this guy..He started acting too desperate...Im all for sex and enjoy it too..but I dont act like Im desperate
So I told him not to act so desperate..its a turn off..first show me your qualities..a confident man is very sexy...
So there will be no further getting to know each other...
Maybe he thought if he tried hard I'd be interested..??
Desperate appears needy, needy is clingy, clingy just suffocates, suffocates mean death..
You're brilliant.
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Old 11-25-2010, 11:06 PM
 
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Are you aware that intercourse is designed to bond a man and a woman together / to cement a relationship from the sharing of the deepest part of your Souls ? Its only going to heighten clingyness . Intercourse is much more than penis and vagina having a rendevous ... but lust hides the true reality .
hmm interesting. So what else do you use?
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