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Do women not look for good providers anymore? 8 pages and all we hear is a good smile, understanding, kind, affectionate, good body, tall. Women who are looking to settle down and raise a family and depend on a man's income you'd think ability to hold a good steady job should be at the top of the list.
There are things that women know that they cannot change - looks and family money (along with the related "confidence") being at the top of the list and things that they THINK that they can change, after marriage. However, nagging and withholding sex aren't very a strong motivators any more.
Now days, there are far too many single women ready to give these husbands the sex and "understanding" he isn't getting at home.
If they put half the effort into the average men with good prospects.....
Do women not look for good providers anymore? 8 pages and all we hear is a good smile, understanding, kind, affectionate, good body, tall. Women who are looking to settle down and raise a family and depend on a man's income you'd think ability to hold a good steady job should be at the top of the list.
I know few women who are "looking to settle down and raise a family".
I know few men who'd be willing to let a woman stay at home and raise a family. Unfortunately (or fortunately?), these are not the 1950s.
WhyShouldIWorry, your cynicism towards women is blinding in your two above posts.
If a man doesn't like women, a woman will pick up on that PDQ and, not surprisingly, find the attitude very undesirable. In fact, run away fast comes to mind.
Sexy men have self-confidence, humor, intelligence and kindness.
Undesirable men are self-centered, game players, arrogant and unwilling to learn.
What are your 4 and 4?
I agree with your top 4 "sexy men" qualities.
My undesirable list would be self-centered/arrogant, closed-minded, insecure, constant bad mood/pessimist.
A man with confidence is comfortable with himself.He doesn't brag, seek to be the center of attention or need anyone to stroke his ego for self-worth. Men with self-confidence have a quiet, inner-strength that everyone recognizes when they see it, other men and women.
I agree 100 percent. This is a very good description of the confidence that so many of us are attracted to.
The opposite of that is someone who is so insecure with himself that he complains and critsizes exsessively, drinks, abuses, uses, puts women and other people in general down, or is obnoxious because he can't win attention any other way.
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