What do you find sexy in men and undesirable in men? (sensitive, people)

[texan2yankee]

Sexy men have self-confidence, humor, intelligence and kindness.

Undesirable men are self-centered, game players, arrogant and unwilling to learn.

What are your 4 and 4?

[funymann]

Originally Posted by texan2yankee

Sexy men have self-confidence, humor, intelligence and kindness.

Undesirable men are self-centered, game players, fake and unwilling to learn.

What are your 4 and 4?

[thatsong64]

desirable:
1. confidence
2. humor
3. hard worker
4. idealistic

undesirable:
1. has no strong convictions about anything
2. a liar
3. not manly (don't like guys who go out of thier way to be super manly 100% of the time, but they should just naturally be manly)
4. cares too much about money

[texan2yankee]

I agree, a hard worker is very sexy and desirable.

[HedraHelix]

sexy:
confident
sensitive
makes me feel comfortable
not afraid to express themselves outside the gender binary

undesirable:
macho men
sexism/racism/homophobia/transphobia/xenophobia etc
too into themselves or think they're all that
too concerned with money or keeping up with the joneses

[Georgianbelle]

Sexy:
Masculinity
Chemistry with me
Intelligence
Humor

Not sexy:
Afraid to have fun
Conceited
Ignorance
Uncaring

[Neemy]

Originally Posted by texan2yankee

Sexy men have self-confidence, humor, intelligence and kindness.

Undesirable men are self-centered, game players, arrogant and unwilling to learn.

What are your 4 and 4?

I'd say your list is a pretty good summation of my thoughts. I'll add to that with (let me pull out my laminated checklist, hang on...)

Sexy:

1. confidence
2. a sense of humor about himself, as well as in general. Funny guys are hot.
3. strong sense of who he is and what he believes
4. emotional strength

Unsexy

1. clingy
2. no passion for anything
3. not willing to take responsibility for his own actions
4. bad hygiene


That was my G-rated version.

[artsyguy]

long corn dog, tall, and hot body.

[Trimac20]

Originally Posted by thatsong64

desirable:
1. confidence
2. humor
3. hard worker
4. idealistic

undesirable:
1. has no strong convictions about anything
2. a liar
3. not manly (don't like guys who go out of thier way to be super manly 100% of the time, but they should just naturally be manly)
4. cares too much about money

How would you describe someone who is not manly?

[artsyguy]

Short, pretentious, and grumpy.

Tall, obtuse, and oafish people are not manly either.

Originally Posted by Trimac20

How would you describe someone who is not manly?