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Old 11-20-2010, 06:36 PM
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Location: Austin
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Sexy men have self-confidence, humor, intelligence and kindness.

Undesirable men are self-centered, game players, arrogant and unwilling to learn.

What are your 4 and 4?

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Old 11-20-2010, 06:41 PM
 
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Sexy men have self-confidence, humor, intelligence and kindness.

Undesirable men are self-centered, game players, fake and unwilling to learn.

What are your 4 and 4?
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Old 11-20-2010, 06:53 PM
 
Location: Hawaii
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desirable:
1. confidence
2. humor
3. hard worker
4. idealistic

undesirable:
1. has no strong convictions about anything
2. a liar
3. not manly (don't like guys who go out of thier way to be super manly 100% of the time, but they should just naturally be manly)
4. cares too much about money
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Old 11-20-2010, 07:00 PM
Status: "that felt good!" (set 9 days ago)
 
Location: Austin
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I agree, a hard worker is very sexy and desirable.
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Old 11-20-2010, 07:10 PM
 
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sexy:
confident
sensitive
makes me feel comfortable
not afraid to express themselves outside the gender binary

undesirable:
macho men
sexism/racism/homophobia/transphobia/xenophobia etc
too into themselves or think they're all that
too concerned with money or keeping up with the joneses
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Old 11-20-2010, 07:50 PM
 
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Sexy:
Masculinity
Chemistry with me
Intelligence
Humor

Not sexy:
Afraid to have fun
Conceited
Ignorance
Uncaring
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Old 11-20-2010, 08:08 PM
 
Location: ATL with a side of Chicago
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Sexy men have self-confidence, humor, intelligence and kindness.

Undesirable men are self-centered, game players, arrogant and unwilling to learn.

What are your 4 and 4?
I'd say your list is a pretty good summation of my thoughts. I'll add to that with (let me pull out my laminated checklist, hang on...)

Sexy:

1. confidence
2. a sense of humor about himself, as well as in general. Funny guys are hot.
3. strong sense of who he is and what he believes
4. emotional strength

Unsexy

1. clingy
2. no passion for anything
3. not willing to take responsibility for his own actions
4. bad hygiene


That was my G-rated version.
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Old 11-20-2010, 08:12 PM
 
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long corn dog, tall, and hot body.
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Old 11-20-2010, 08:18 PM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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desirable:
1. confidence
2. humor
3. hard worker
4. idealistic

undesirable:
1. has no strong convictions about anything
2. a liar
3. not manly (don't like guys who go out of thier way to be super manly 100% of the time, but they should just naturally be manly)
4. cares too much about money

How would you describe someone who is not manly?
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Old 11-20-2010, 08:23 PM
 
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Short, pretentious, and grumpy.

Tall, obtuse, and oafish people are not manly either.

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How would you describe someone who is not manly?
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