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Old 11-22-2010, 03:12 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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Well there must be a reason as to why.
Although I surely don't always agree with Samston, I agree with this. I say this from a point of experience. From my teenage years through my early twenties or so, I ALWAYS seemed to be the "victim" of guys who either "just used" me or were "shallow," "uncaring," etc. Eventually I started to ask myself: what's the common denominator?

You guessed it.

OTOH, I didn't *stay* with these "bad guys". I dumped...dumped...dumped. I was a serial dumper. But again..what for??? Nobody is THAT stupid that he or she couldn't possibly see a pattern. So the next time I dumped, what I dumped was my victim attitude and the "bad boys" no longer seemed sexy at all. And I mean at all. It was almost weird how that happened.
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Old 11-22-2010, 04:03 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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I thought you were going to date a 17 year old?

http://11logic.files.wordpress.com/2009/07/d09ae-pedo_bear_too_old1.jpg (broken link)
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Old 11-22-2010, 04:12 PM
 
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Psychology is like being a chiropractor. Both are frauds. No offense.
Hi d-boy-80,

Its the likes of you that is easiest to defraud. However I don't want to upset you and no hard feelings. You do deserve a break today, and Coke is it. Puppies....
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Old 11-22-2010, 04:21 PM
 
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Hi d-boy-80,

Its the likes of you that is easiest to defraud. However I don't want to upset you and no hard feelings. You do deserve a break today, and Coke is it. Puppies....
How am I easy to defraud? Oh boy, you must be a psychiatrist or something.
No hard feelings were intended.
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Old 11-22-2010, 05:25 PM
 
Location: North America
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I thought you were going to date a 17 year old?
I am. Like I said, this girl is just a friend.
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Old 11-22-2010, 06:38 PM
 
Location: Crooklyn, New York
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A-hole Game: Day 1 « Citizen Renegade

There are genuine *******s who are loved, and there are spiteful *******s who get nowhere. The difference is crucial.

Uncaring ******* = success with women.

Caring ******* = failure with women.

When women say they don’t fall for *******s, they are thinking of the second kind. A caring ******* comes from a place of bitterness and spite. His *******ry is reactive rather than proactive. He is poor at calibrating which women will be responsive to his dick attitude. Caring *******s are crassly insulting and transparently invested in the outcome of their game.

Uncaring *******s are *******s as a consequence of their indifference. It is the aloofness of the man she loves that drives women crazy with obsession*, and that aloofness is manifest as ******* behavior. An uncaring ******* demonstrates clearly in his body language and tone of voice, not to mention his dearth of words, that he could take her or leave her. In the scenario above, my ******* behavior mirrored my feelings perfectly — I really did not want her there by my side that night.

*Why do women love *******s? Quickie answer: Sexy Sons hypothesis.
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Old 11-22-2010, 07:08 PM
 
Location: Crooklyn, New York
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Some relevant Roissy maxims.

Roissy Maxim # 101: We expend a lot of mental effort pretending we’re blind to the reality of human nature, when we act in accordance with its precepts all the time. We are fallen sinners not from Adam and Eve, but from Travis the chimp. We haven’t evolved as far from face eating as some would hope.

Roissy Maxim #71: In their sexual primes women’s attraction for *******s is at its strongest. You can catch a lot of hungry flies with honey, but shît attracts the most well-fed flies.

Roissy Maxim #3: Whenever an attractive girl tells you she hates *******s, or describes her experience in the past dating *******s and claims to avoid them now, or recites a laundry list of asshøle-y things guys do that she disapproves of, you can bet your weight in gold bricks that she needs you to be an asshøle to her.

Roissy Maxim #17: Be narcissistic. There is no greater divergence than that between a woman’s stated disapproval of male narcissism and the rapidity with which she jumps into bed with a male narcissist.

Roissy Maxim #30: When in doubt, ask yourself “WWJD?” What Would a Jerk Do? Then do that.

Roissy Maxim #41: The more experience you have with women, the more you’ll know which women have experience with men. Corollary to #41: It is the inexperienced beta male who is most often in the dark about a woman’s sexual history and liable to be victimized by the cheating ****.

Roissy Maxim #328: Underneath the veneer of civilized discourse we act in ways that are brazenly self-interested in the short term.
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Old 11-22-2010, 07:36 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, TX
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*grabs popcorn*
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Old 11-22-2010, 07:48 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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I am. Like I said, this girl is just a friend.
Dude. Youre older than me. That's gross.
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Old 11-22-2010, 08:01 PM
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how am i gonna get laid if girls stop dating jerks?

this thread is selfish
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