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Have a girl who's apparently interested and wanted to be my gf. We talked a bit and I guess we became official. I text her and she texts me. But lately, she hasn't really texted me much. Like, she'll text me once and we may talk for like five minutes, and then that's it. But she keeps saying stuff like missing me and such. One day, she texted me while at work and was going to text me later, but she didn't. So I've basically either text her in response, wait until she texts me, or if she texts me, I either ignore or delay my response.
Should I be worried and look into more, or just play it cool? Btw, she's the one who jumped and showed interest in me...and it was through a social site.
Have a girl who's apparently interested and wanted to be my gf. We talked a bit and I guess we became official. I text her and she texts me. But lately, she hasn't really texted me much. Like, she'll text me once and we may talk for like five minutes, and then that's it. But she keeps saying stuff like missing me and such. One day, she texted me while at work and was going to text me later, but she didn't. So I've basically either text her in response, wait until she texts me, or if she texts me, I either ignore or delay my response.
Should I be worried and look into more, or just play it cool? Btw, she's the one who jumped and showed interest in me...and it was through a social site.
I don't think I've ever seen the word "text" so much in one post!
Seriously, though... You "guess" you became official? How old are you two? Texting is not the best way to communicate with your gf/bf. You need to actually TALK to each other.
And "ignoring and delaying" your response is game-playing. You don't want to do that.
Seriously, though... You "guess" you became official? How old are you two? Texting is not the best way to communicate with your gf/bf. You need to actually TALK to each other.
THIS^^. Times 10. Good grief!! Are people not learning ANY social skills anymore????
I know, I should try calling her lol. But we actually kept messaging each other beforehand. But maybe I should surprise her with a call. Just that I've been busy with schoolwork and all that I haven't had time to do any calling
So...does it matter if it's a long distance thing or so?
What's there to worry about? You don't have a relationship with this girl, and playing games with delaying and ignoring texts is no way to start one. It's done. Move on.
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Are people not learning ANY social skills anymore???? 
