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Old 11-30-2010, 08:34 PM
 
Location: Raleigh NC
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I think most of us guys have a memory of "woulda, coulda, shoulda" and want to slap ourselves when we think about that lost opportunity because we hesitated with unsure signals but man, she is broadcasting loud and clear.
The man speaks the truth. The guys in this thread myself included are probably basing their opinion on their memories and the "I wished I had..." and are telling you to get with it.
Remember, once it becomes a regret it's too late.
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Old 12-01-2010, 09:58 AM
 
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come on Man, what are you waiting for???a formal invitation???You might already be in that "shoulda, coulda, woulda" category.She's gonna start thinking you aren't turned on to her if you don't show her that you are.
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Old 12-01-2010, 01:55 PM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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Have a few drinks with her, then, when she least expects it, grab her & ram your tongue down her throat. You'll find out in about 1/10th of a second, then you won't have to ask HERE anymore!!
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ugh better to give her soft teasing kiss (kisses) not too wet, not too dry and explore her lips with yours while your hands explore every curve and make her bubble with anticipation as it progresses.


Jamming a tongue down is not very sexual or passionate in my opinion.
Sorry Slambango, but I'd take Lionking's advice over yours. Now I know Where you got your name--that's what the ladies do when you try to kiss them.

The only thing that will save our op in this situation is that I think the lady actually considers him marriage material, and most women would rather marry a man who isn't too proficient b/c then we'll worry that he'll know what to do the next time a woman hits on him. Better to marry someone a bit clueless. Still, hurry up OP and let her know you like her back--the message could not be clearer.
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Old 12-01-2010, 02:05 PM
 
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So... is she interested?
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Old 12-01-2010, 03:07 PM
 
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ugh better to give her soft teasing kiss (kisses) not too wet, not too dry and explore her lips with yours while your hands explore every curve and make her bubble with anticipation as it progresses.


Jamming a tongue down is not very sexual or passionate in my opinion.
One more vote over here for the soft teasing kiss!
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Old 12-01-2010, 03:18 PM
 
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Next time you are alone but your hands behind her head and say, I should have done this a long time...and kiss her. Don't hesitate or wait for her to say anything. Oh, yeah...no tongue ramming just yet.
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Old 12-12-2010, 08:49 PM
 
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sorry it took me so long to wrap this up. and big thanks to everyone for their advice and posts. i'll keep the no tongue ramming in the back of my mind haha. its been noted ;-).

and stepka - yes i'll admit i'm a little dense sometimes when it comes to signals.
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Old 12-12-2010, 09:36 PM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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sorry it took me so long to wrap this up. and big thanks to everyone for their advice and posts. i'll keep the no tongue ramming in the back of my mind haha. its been noted ;-).

and stepka - yes i'll admit i'm a little dense sometimes when it comes to signals.
And? How are things at work with her? Is she still showing interest? And yes, on the kissing take Lionking's advice. meow.
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Old 12-24-2010, 02:44 PM
 
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i think i blew it. fb page has her in a relationship with some guy (although i'm fairly confident they'd been seeing each other / talking way before our trip up, i've heard the guys named referenced before by her). she and i had only been in contact probably 2 or 3 times between our trip back and last week. spoke to her yesterday for a brief minute. nothing major. the only thing that still gets me thinking is that she sent me a picture she had taken of us on the trip together and commented on how cute a couple we look. we're talking like a week and a half ago. oh well. live and learn right
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Old 12-24-2010, 03:17 PM
 
Location: Boca Raton, FL
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Smile She still likes you....

Go for it. Merry Christmas.
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