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Old 11-29-2010, 08:57 AM
 
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I had an earlier post that i started probably a week or so ago asking everyone if this girl whom i work with closely is at all interested in me based on behavior, what she says, how she acts around me and in general and whether or not there was anything there. got some great feedback and advice. part of it also centered around a road trip she and i were taking for thanksgiving break. 10 hours up and due to traffic yesterday 12 hours back. LOL. Interstate 77 was HORRIBLE on sunday.


anyways.....here's the post script of the trip mostly containing the return trip.

picked her up in Cleveland around 1130ish am on sunday. her friend from her hometown brought her down (although her mom actually suggested i drive up to rochester, ny where she is from and spend the night there, not for any particular reason she said) to cleveland where i was and we loaded up her stuff after a nice 5 day holiday break and took off back down to SC. she actually got me a present (dvd of the hangover kind of as a joke b/c i said i hadn't seen it on the way up. on the way up she said i should rent it and watch it with her, so the fact now that she went out and bought it for me, odd). she also on a few occasions during the trip referred to me as "baby" and not in her usual sarcastic tone. definitely a more sincere tone which threw me for a loop.

almost immediately the trip started off as it had on the way up. casual talk about how the break went, seeing family / parents / friends / etc..... she after 3 months finally got it out of me that i was a smoker haha (she then "hinted" that maybe i'd have a girlfriend if i didn't smoke). although to the best of my ability i febreezed my car to holy hell for this trip haha. anyways..... probably due to a long break the car fell kinda silent, with me focused on driving and her texting and eventually taking a quick nap. as we made our down through WV and into VA the traffic definitely slowed to a crawl. added a whole hour onto our trip and then some. with that being said maybe due to the fact that it was now dark out or she was stir crazy (she hates sitting in the car) she became her loud, dancy, extrovert self and INCREDIBLY flirty the same way shes always been with me since we met. only this time every chance she got to put her hand on mine she did, every chance she got to rub the back of my head she got, even at one point cuddled up next to me while i was driving and started running her foot up my leg. this basically continues until we get home over the course of a few hours. i help her get her things back into her apartment. we hug and her comment to me was "don't be a stranger". kind of felt that was an odd thing to say and especially in the way she said it.

so anyways just figured id share with the folks who replied on the first thread about how everything went down.
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Old 11-29-2010, 01:57 PM
 
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Why are you analyzing her 1000 attempts to flirt with you? This is stupid. If you want to know if she likes you how about say "do you like me?" Now maybe she thinks you are a closet gay. Just ask her and be done with it.
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Old 11-29-2010, 02:03 PM
 
Location: Nashville, Tn
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It sounds like it went very well and I agree that you're overanalyzing the whole thing. Saying "don't be a stranger" means she wants to see you again as opposed to "you couldn't be much stranger" which would have meant the opposite.
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Old 11-29-2010, 03:46 PM
 
Location: San Gabriel Valley, CA
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Well for Jesus' holy sake did you KISS HER ALREADY????
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Old 11-29-2010, 04:24 PM
 
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Please just call her TONIGHT and ask her out. Let us know what she says.
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Old 11-29-2010, 04:40 PM
 
Location: in my imagination
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even at one point cuddled up next to me while i was driving and started running her foot up my leg. this basically continues until we get home over the course of a few hours..

So basically she purposely induced you to have a boner over the course of a few hours of which at the end you hugged her ( like a friend) and basically blew it.....or blew it when you got home alone right?


Dude, give her that passionate kiss and pull her into you so she feels pressing against her what she started.
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Old 11-29-2010, 05:33 PM
 
Location: FL
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OP, you're pissing us off. Stop f*cking around and go over to her place tonight and kiss her or do something with her but stop bullsh*tting. You're killing me.
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Old 11-29-2010, 05:37 PM
 
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yea when it feels right i say kiss her. Shes definitely sending you signals. Your kinda being a wimp not responding.
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Old 11-29-2010, 05:40 PM
 
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I have a similar memory when I for some reason didn't see it, I feel like shooting myself for not kissing the girl every time I think of it.
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Old 11-29-2010, 06:58 PM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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Milk is good for healthly teeth and strong bones
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