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Old 12-03-2010, 10:34 PM
 
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Hello,

Was a little rushed with last post. My questions are the following:

To the guys:

1. If you had a choice between middle class/upper middle class suburban women and rich heiress-type women, which one would you choose?

2. Is it unusual if you prefer middle class women, to rich or poor women?
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Old 02-03-2011, 10:09 PM
 
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I prefer middle class women over poor women and I've been exposed to the so called "upper class" way of life and that's not me.
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Old 02-04-2011, 12:20 AM
 
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Don't care about those details...

Not what I look at.

I had a woman offer to buy me a house... She was Nutz (Although she could afford it)
She was my 2nd stalker.

And I've dated women who were jobless...

Depends on them.
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Old 02-04-2011, 03:40 AM
 
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its best to date someone in your own range. Similarities help compatibility. Differences can lead to arguments and incompatibility.
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Old 02-04-2011, 05:37 AM
 
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How do you define a rich women? Does it have to be millions or just a woman who earns over, say, 100K, and can afford to live pretty well?

Are you talking about how much is in the bank or the attitude?
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Old 02-04-2011, 09:51 AM
 
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Social class / financial rank is totally irrelevant, for me -- I love who I love, regardless of how much or little money they have

Having said that...I would prolly have quite a bit more in common lifestyle-wise, I suppose, with a middle-class or poorer gal, than say with a rich gal, making the former 2 more likely to be mutually-attracted, to me

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Originally Posted by MarkKramer103 View Post
Hello,

Was a little rushed with last post. My questions are the following:

To the guys:

1. If you had a choice between middle class/upper middle class suburban women and rich heiress-type women, which one would you choose?

2. Is it unusual if you prefer middle class women, to rich or poor women?
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Old 02-04-2011, 10:18 AM
 
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Choose the woman you can love...not the class!!
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Old 10-05-2016, 06:05 PM
 
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I would pick the rich woman.
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Old 10-05-2016, 06:28 PM
 
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I would pick the one I liked.

I sort of learned a lesson about this before. Didn’t think a woman that came from a family that was well-off economically would be interested in being with a guy (me) who was just a foreign exchange student in her country (Japan) with a part time job, without a car, who lived at home (host family), etc. She had an upper management position in an international firm and yet we were going out just fine. We didn’t have a problem going to upscale candle-light restaurants or even sitting outside a convenience store enjoying a snack while we chatted about our day after work. She also didn’t have a problem introducing me to her circle of friends regardless of what I did for a living back then. It was quite an experience. Cultural differences I guess.

Maybe there are guys who lose interest in a woman once they find out she is way up there economically because they think she is so used to the finer things in life than there is no way she would go down a few levels to be with a guy who can barely take her out to places that are not up to her level or that she will be fine paying for everything most of the time. If it was the other way around then its fine.
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Old 10-05-2016, 07:44 PM
 
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I prefer dating middle class, but on the upper end of the spectrum. Enough money that they have plenty of disposable income, but not so much that they feel superior to everyone.

I deal professionally with many upper class women, and I honestly can't imagine how men live with them. Most have barely tolerable personalities and princess syndrome.
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