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Judgmentalism
Gossip/Drama--I HATE gossipy women. I won't even talk to them, let alone date them.
Moodiness--Same here. You have to be emotionally stable to be around me. Otherwise we're done.
Vulgarity--profanity (in excess), being loud and obnoxious. Very un-ladylike traits.
That men don't sit down to pee!! I can't tell you how many times I say to myself "you're sooooo not getting any sex" when I'm on my knees cleaning the stream of urine that has pooled in the crevices of the toilet base! I mean come on, how can you guys miss that big a** opening in front of you!
I guess we should thank your lucky starts you at least put the toilet seat up but FOCUS ON YOUR AIM!!!
Ok..rant over!
You have got to be kidding me. I would consider a man who sits to pee--pu**ywhipped.
Now my brother would get up in the middle of the night and could never find the bathroom and would pee in the strangest places, and I had a date once that remembered him from when my bro peed in his boot on a boy scout camping trip. Once he peed in our suitcase when we were visiting my aunt--my mother would get so mad but he couldn't help it. She never tried to make him sit on the toilet though--there are certain things men just have to do, even if it's messy.
Racism
Homophobia
Sexism
Stupidity and the glorification of ignorance
Bigotry
Poor personal hygiene
Big muscles ( Gym bunnies are one of the worst turn offs for me)
Lack of intellectual curiosity
Laziness
Apathy
Cruelty
Men who spit in the streets , fart in public ( and revel in it) for fun, scratch their groins etc...
Lack of manners
Porn addicts
Smokers
Heavy drinkers
Drug takers
Men who cannot "aim" properly ( if you can't , at least clean after yourself...)
Fussy eaters
Lecherous men ( an admiring glance is flattering, leering at a woman is simply distasteful)
Mummy's boys ( BRrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! )
Buddy's boy ( would rather spend time with his mates than you )
Hobby obsessed
Rednecks
White collar pricks who think themselves above everyone else and behave worse than anyone else
Men who ill treat others, be it women , children , animals, colleagues, family, etc.. I loathe bullies from the depths of my soul.
Men who feel they have to make a joke of everything
No sense of humour ( completely different from making a joke of everything)
Men who are not Gentlemen
Vain men ( is there anything less sexy than a man who loves himself so much his mirror is beginning to crack from over-use.... )
Selfish Lovers ( "wham , bam thank you M'am" really does not work for me)
Most of those traits also apply to women though, I am not discriminating... )
I don't know what it is about that, but in all honesty. I guess I have very complex standards, the easiest things can turn me off from someone. I have successfully only liked one girl back when she liked me, and it was a successful relationship where I have no regrets and no complaints for. Ideally her personality and mine just mixed so well together.
I've noticed the things that turn me off from a girl really makes it hard for me to actually emotionally deepen my like for many of them. Its like a barrier for me.
Perhaps you are going after the wrong sex?
Anyways, for me it's:
1. Lying. I don't mind little lies in the sense of omitting trivial details, but outside of that, I despise liars (unless there is a really, really, really, good reason for it).
2. Playing games. This goes without saying.
3. Testing my "faith". You know, having one of her friends that I have never met flirt and/or try and bed me.
4. Telling me who my friends are. I have known some of these people for 10, 15, 20 years longer then I have known you. And you are trying to tell me I can't hang out with them? They are no good? Yeah, okay. See ya.
5. Telling me how to live my life. As I with above, I have more than likely been on my same path for upwards of 20 years before I even knew who you were. Who are you to tell me otherwise? Not only am I set in my ways (yes, there is always room for growth and improvement), I've managed so long just fine without you.
6. Suspicious of female friends. Same as #4. I have a good handful of female friends. Some of which I have known for 10+ years and fall into the best friends category. If you can't handle that, then I don't know what else to say except for sorry, and get lost.
7. Talking negative about other women. This is actually a big peeve of mine. You know, when two or more women sit around and talk sh*t about another woman. She's so fat. She's so ugly. She is a gold digger. She is a sl*t. Etc.
Remove one of the girls and replace her with the one they were badmouthing and now you have a new group that begins to badmouth the one that just left.
8. Chain smoking. There was a point in time when smoking in general was an automatic no. I have since changed this "rule". However, if the woman smokes over two packs a day, then it is still a no.
9. Being a hippy. Just not into your earth tones and earth vibes, man.
10. Extreme right-wing or extreme left-wing politics. I know that some of you may not understand this, but they are both the same.
11. Actually believes that Sarah Palin is okay. Seriously. Get away from me.
12. Is a fan of Glen Beck. I'd probably become banned from CD for life if I actually post why.
13. Her only news source is FoxNews. Even more seriously, back yourself away from me.
14. Really likes NASCAR. A little bit of NASCAR is okay. A whole lot of it is not good. However, Formula One racing is cool.
15. Believes that Bud/Miller/Coors Lite is good beer. Yes, I am a beer snob (but I do think that regular Bud is not bad). You are either still stuck in your college days, or you actually believe that 20 -30 fewer calories is significant enough to drink something watered down, tasteless, and lacking punch.
16. Lacking comprehension that there are actually other countries on this planet other than the U.S.
17. Ignorance in general.
18. Being hardcore religious. Doesn't The Bible say something about it is not your place to judge? Yeah, well then stop doing it.
There are a few more, but I'm just getting nit-picky.
1. Lying. I don't mind little lies in the sense of omitting trivial details, but outside of that, I despise liars (unless there is a really, really, really, good reason for it).
18. Being hardcore religious. Doesn't The Bible say something about it is not your place to judge? Yeah, well then stop doing it.
There are a few more, but I'm just getting nit-picky.
I wish you well.
'Mom'---they generally love their sons unconditionally.
My #1 turnoff is with people that approach love and dating like it's some sort of operational checklist for the space shuttle.
The perfect person doesn't exist for you...but keep telling yourself they do so you can avoid emotional entanglements, not "settle" and tie it up with a nice psychological bow that it's not your fault there aren't any good people out there.
1. Lying. I don't mind little lies in the sense of omitting trivial details, but outside of that, I despise liars (unless there is a really, really, really, good reason for it).
2. Playing games. This goes without saying.
3. Testing my "faith". You know, having one of her friends that I have never met flirt and/or try and bed me.
4. Telling me who my friends are. I have known some of these people for 10, 15, 20 years longer then I have known you. And you are trying to tell me I can't hang out with them? They are no good? Yeah, okay. See ya.
5. Telling me how to live my life. As I with above, I have more than likely been on my same path for upwards of 20 years before I even knew who you were. Who are you to tell me otherwise? Not only am I set in my ways (yes, there is always room for growth and improvement), I've managed so long just fine without you.
6. Suspicious of female friends. Same as #4. I have a good handful of female friends. Some of which I have known for 10+ years and fall into the best friends category. If you can't handle that, then I don't know what else to say except for sorry, and get lost.
7. Talking negative about other women. This is actually a big peeve of mine. You know, when two or more women sit around and talk sh*t about another woman. She's so fat. She's so ugly. She is a gold digger. She is a sl*t. Etc.
Remove one of the girls and replace her with the one they were badmouthing and now you have a new group that begins to badmouth the one that just left.
8. Chain smoking. There was a point in time when smoking in general was an automatic no. I have since changed this "rule". However, if the woman smokes over two packs a day, then it is still a no.
9. Being a hippy. Just not into your earth tones and earth vibes, man.
10. Extreme right-wing or extreme left-wing politics. I know that some of you may not understand this, but they are both the same.
11. Actually believes that Sarah Palin is okay. Seriously. Get away from me.
12. Is a fan of Glen Beck. I'd probably become banned from CD for life if I actually post why.
13. Her only news source is FoxNews. Even more seriously, back yourself away from me.
14. Really likes NASCAR. A little bit of NASCAR is okay. A whole lot of it is not good. However, Formula One racing is cool.
15. Believes that Bud/Miller/Coors Lite is good beer. Yes, I am a beer snob (but I do think that regular Bud is not bad). You are either still stuck in your college days, or you actually believe that 20 -30 fewer calories is significant enough to drink something watered down, tasteless, and lacking punch.
16. Lacking comprehension that there are actually other countries on this planet other than the U.S.
17. Ignorance in general.
18. Being hardcore religious. Doesn't The Bible say something about it is not your place to judge? Yeah, well then stop doing it.
There are a few more, but I'm just getting nit-picky.
-Women who fart like there's no tomorrow. I don't mind if she blows one here are there but women who fart like and gloat about it turn me off.
-Women who play "mind games". You either want me or you don't enjoy my company or not. I hate women who are one minute talking about how they want to sex me up, then the next day they don't know how they feel about me. I just don't like stupid, childish, high school mind games in general. I also hate when they try to get me to "chase" them and be on their punany. I don't mind playing hard to get because I love a women who's confident and respects herself but there's playing hard to get and then there's just plain stupidity.
-Insecure about their looks. I don't mind women who are insecure about their looks to an EXTENT because we all have our insecurities. However, it kills me that if I'm dating a lady and she's always worried about how she looks. If I'm attracted to you then why the heck are you worrying so much? I'm all for making improvements but when they constantly tell me they feel so unattractive it annoys me greatly. I see the beauty in you, that's why I'M WITH YOU. Give it a rest.
-Women who think making out with other women is always a way to impress men. Okay, it doesn't bother me when women make out with each other if they're genuinely attracted to each other. The same with men, but I just hate when women who are out of high school think making out with another lady is something that's going to make me wet my pants. Maybe the other men will applaud but I've seen it a million times and believe me it's nothing I'm new too. FAIL. Unless we're having a threesome, don't try making out with another lady to impress me or get attention from other men. Immature.
-Racist. I simply can't stand someone who is racist and that applies to everyone. It's more annoying though if there's a lady that I'm into and then slowly but surely I see her seething racism. That will turn me off real quick.
-General ignorance. We're all ignorance to some degree but the difference is when we try to understand something instead of not wanting to. I can't be with a women who doesn't want to understand or try to learn something new, different etc. I like my women to be educated and intelligent.
-Non-conversational. If I can't hold a conversation with you, forget about it.
-Materialistic: We all like the finer things in life and I don't mind having a lady who would want to strive for something better for herself or me as well. I just need a women who can remain grounded and level headed. A humble lady who doesn't always need to feel like she's above all. If I can get my women anything in the world, I would but I also need a lady who can absolutely enjoy the simpler things in life as well.
-Fashion. I don't need my lady to be a fashionista by any means but I do like a lady that can dress accordingly to certain events. I don't mind if my girl wants to be in a hoody and jeans or pajama pants most the time but I like a girl who doesn't mind playing dress up sometimes. I especially can't be with a lady who dresses like a man.
-A women who can't think for herself. I HATE, HATE when a lady can't make decisions on her own and has to resort to her girlfriends to make decisions for her and is heavily influenced by what they think. That is the most annoying thing and is such a turn off. That really pisses me off. It's one thing to ask for opinions and advice from your peers or even family members but women who act as if their friends word is the end-all-be-all is something that really grinds my gears. GET OUT OF MY FACE!
For the most part I'm really a simple guy and can put up with a lot and let a lot slide. So I try not to nit-pick too much but somethings just simply can be a turn off for me and things I can't tolerate.
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I can't tell you how many times I say to myself "you're sooooo not getting any sex" when I'm on my knees cleaning the stream of urine that has pooled in the crevices of the toilet base! 
I mean come on, how can you guys miss that big a** opening in front of you! 
