
12-05-2010, 03:51 PM
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How come I don't get a date, when I have an acquaintance who I suspect is in shady business does?  Is all the talk of confidence and "be yourself" just fluff?
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12-05-2010, 03:56 PM
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Location: Tennessee
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Originally Posted by samston
How come I don't get a date, when I have an acquaintance who I suspect is in shady business does?  Is all the talk of confidence and "be yourself" just fluff?
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Try harder!! 
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12-05-2010, 04:04 PM
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Location: NW Indiana
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Just keep tryin', Samston! 
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12-05-2010, 04:04 PM
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How? I have confidence, I work in a prestigious organisation in my country (and have impressed a lot of people in that organisation, including top management figures), I am learned, I am getting an education, so what else is there?
I sometimes think it's my right to be in a relationship, I deserve it more than others, but life is not fair 
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12-05-2010, 04:08 PM
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Location: Great Plains
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Originally Posted by samston
How? I have confidence, I work in a prestigious organisation in my country (and have impressed a lot of people in that organisation, including top management figures), I am learned, I am getting an education, so what else is there?
I sometimes think it's my right to be in a relationship, I deserve it more than others, but life is not fair 
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That attitude will get you far. It is not about entitlement or being better than anyone else. I am guessing that carries over and it shows.
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12-05-2010, 04:10 PM
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It's entitlement, but as I said not everything is fair.
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12-05-2010, 04:13 PM
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Location: Great Plains
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Originally Posted by samston
It's entitlement, but as I said not everything is fair.
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True... But the target customer doesn't respond to that sort of thing.
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12-05-2010, 04:17 PM
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Location: Tennessee
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Originally Posted by samston
I am learned, I am getting an education, so what else is there?
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"I am learned?!"  Whew!! 
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12-05-2010, 04:26 PM
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Location: North America
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Originally Posted by samston
It's entitlement, but as I said not everything is fair.
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You're in luck. There are a ton of women who think they're entitled to a guy with an education, money and looks just because they have a *****. Oh wait...you didn't mention whether you have looks or not?
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12-05-2010, 04:27 PM
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I don't think I'm that bad looking. But attractiveness is always holistic.
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