Guys/girls: need some good advice, how to find a nice guy with good intentions
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Seriously, I need some insight from anyone who would like to offer some wise advice . I am not into online dating (sorry but I don't believe in it), don't go to bars or nightclubs, have very few friends , and my life is from work to home, and some random social gatherings (family gatherings or work related) . The story is , that a guy at work , who is single, with no girlfriend, kind, and a good person in general, showed subtle interest in me some time ago. But the guy is extremely, super duper shy, lives with his mother, is in his late thirties, and seems that has no interest in any kind of commitment from what i have gathered. Anyways, it has become a bit frustrating, but I also believe that when something is meant to be, it happens. What do you guys think???
Social gathering where people with good intentions tend to hang out. It really helps if a lot of the people at these gatherings are already married, since they tend to make it a hobby of putting guy A with girl B.
yes, I do think the best way to meet a guy is in person. Don't date online since you never know what kind of creepy person is behind the screen. Just my opinion...
The road to hell - or divorce - is paved with good intentions. Instead, focus on someone who ACTS in a manner you like.
In your particular situation, your options for finding someone are very limited, so unless you expand your dating options, you can only go after people in your limited world - and they may not be good matches. So, you may as well ask this guy out and find out more about him. At worst, you'll find he's not a good match or doesn't want to commit. At best, you may actually find that he's ideal for you. Nothing ventured, nothing gained - and you will always wonder what might have been.
Seriously, I need some insight from anyone who would like to offer some wise advice . I am not into online dating (sorry but I don't believe in it), don't go to bars or nightclubs, have very few friends , and my life is from work to home, and some random social gatherings (family gatherings or work related) . The story is , that a guy at work , who is single, with no girlfriend, kind, and a good person in general, showed subtle interest in me some time ago. But the guy is extremely, super duper shy, lives with his mother, is in his late thirties, and seems that has no interest in any kind of commitment from what i have gathered. Anyways, it has become a bit frustrating, but I also believe that when something is meant to be, it happens. What do you guys think???
Word of advice: The guys that flirt with most women and are "ladies men" ar eusually not nice guys and do not have good intentions. As for the guy in your case, get to know him. He may be living with his mom because she has health issues. It doesn't automatically mean he's a loser. Plenty of guys are shy too, but shy guys seem to be looked down upon(unless he's good looking) where as shy women are not.
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