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Old 12-07-2010, 08:00 PM
 
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So you have never had sex/intercourse then so you really dont know if you like it or not. Its like someone saying they dont like a certain food when they havent even tried it yet.
I already know I would not like it. This is like saying I have not put my hand in a fire, but I already know I would not like the feeling and I do not have to put my hand in the fire to find out I would not like it.
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Old 12-07-2010, 08:03 PM
 
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Some people are just asexual. Aside from those, I suspect many who aren't "into" sex probably never had great sex. Mostly women fall into that category since they're the ones who usually are left hanging after a guy gets off and isn't very good or considerate in bed to take care of her needs.
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Old 12-07-2010, 08:04 PM
 
Location: ATL with a side of Chicago
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I already know I would not like it. This is like saying I have not put my hand in a fire, but I already know I would not like the feeling and I do not have to put my hand in the fire to find out I would not like it.
Since the brain is the largest sex organ, I guess you're set, then.
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Old 12-07-2010, 08:20 PM
 
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I already know I would not like it. This is like saying I have not put my hand in a fire, but I already know I would not like the feeling and I do not have to put my hand in the fire to find out I would not like it.
That's kind of a sad post. With the right lover sex can be very pleasurable. Swim the warm waters of sins of the flesh.
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Old 12-07-2010, 09:00 PM
 
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That's kind of a sad post. With the right lover sex can be very pleasurable. Swim the warm waters of sins of the flesh.
You're assuming asexuality is a sad existence but it isn't necessarily. Sad is relative to the person. I'm asexual and perfectly happy that way. In fact I'm glad that my wife and I don't have to deal with sex issues and I'm glad that there's one less thing that can get in the way of a successful relationship.
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Old 12-07-2010, 09:09 PM
 
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I already know I would not like it. This is like saying I have not put my hand in a fire, but I already know I would not like the feeling and I do not have to put my hand in the fire to find out I would not like it.
Exactly. Another analogy is: how do straight people know they don't like the same sex and how do gay people know they don't like the opposite sex? People just know.
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Old 12-07-2010, 09:19 PM
 
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That's kind of a sad post. With the right lover sex can be very pleasurable. Swim the warm waters of sins of the flesh.
I am not asexual. I become aroused and excited when doing sexual acts. I just do not get excited about intercouse.
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Old 12-07-2010, 09:23 PM
 
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Since the brain is the largest sex organ, I guess you're set, then.
I definitely use my brain to become excited. I am very sexually charged just the thought of intercouse does not do it for me right now at this time
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Old 12-07-2010, 10:14 PM
 
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Since the brain is the largest sex organ, I guess you're set, then.
Not always true. I have had sex with some braindead yet super pretty people.
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Old 12-07-2010, 10:18 PM
 
Location: ATL with a side of Chicago
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Not always true. I have had sex with some braindead yet super pretty people.
You know what I mean...
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