I don't understand how someone can NOT like sex (male, cheated, too young)

[Ishouldknow]

My ex grew up in a large family (11) in a small house. It was literally a large dormitory, 4 to a room, 2 to a bed. Her parents, oddly after having so many kids never showed affection in front of the children. She hated crowding, her space being invaded, couple that with lack of affection and she just didn't care about intimacy, hasn't dated since our break up either.

[JustJulia]

Originally Posted by city_data91

Finally someone speaks the truth. Anyone that thinks sex is a necessity is pathetic.

Says the guy who hoards Facebook friends like shiny pennies. Sex is a basic biological drive that many people find important. It's why conjugal visits are given as rewards to prisoners.

[Djuna]

Originally Posted by JustJulia

Says the guy who hoards Facebook friends like shiny pennies. Sex is a basic biological drive that many people find important. It's why conjugal visits are given as rewards to prisoners.

Exactly JJ. It is also why it is on the very basic physiological level of needs on Maslow's hierarchy.


Maslow's hierarchy of needs - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

[city_data91]

I live without sex.

[20yrsinBranson]

Originally Posted by paganmama80

Perhaps your husband is not doing it right dear

Oh no, he's fine. No complaints with his technique. I just have no interest. It's not hormonal either. I have never had much interest in the activity. Despite the fact I was very sexually active in my younger years, it was just a means to an end. I could never really understand the attraction. LOL

20yrsinBranson

[seeniorita]

Originally Posted by city_data91

Anyone that thinks sex is a necessity is pathetic.

I'm pathetic then!!

[Djuna]

Originally Posted by JustJulia

Says the guy who hoards Facebook friends like shiny pennies. Sex is a basic biological drive that many people find important. It's why conjugal visits are given as rewards to prisoners.

I thought that read 'Says the guy who hoards Facebook friends like shiny penises'

One track mind....

[TheImportersWife]

Originally Posted by Djuna

I thought that read 'Says the guy who hoards Facebook friends like shiny penises'

One track mind....

[Barefoot Potato]

Originally Posted by seeniorita

I'm pathetic then!!

Me too, and so are a whole bunch of my close, and very married, friends!

I think using the word "pathetic" for thinking sex is necessary is well beyond overboard.

[Black Jack22]

Some of you need some serious therapy.

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