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View Poll Results: Guys, what do you seek most in a relationship these days..
Love and marriage... 1 33.33%
Sex and romance... 1 33.33%
Sex only... 0 0%
Poll dancers... 0 0%
I'm gay, and prefer men... 0 0%
A woman who cares about me and can cook... 1 33.33%
A tall model looking babe... 0 0%
I want kids and a family... 0 0%
I have a foot fetish.. 0 0%
A woman to take care of me...like Mother did... 0 0%
Voters: 3. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 12-11-2010, 12:54 PM
 
Location: Florida
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is the deceptive nature of women on Love adds...who's specialty is to lure in guys who are truly seeking 'Love'...

OK I get that, it is a bit dishonest if you are a prostitute to pretend to be someone who is looking for a soulmate/long-term partner.

I'm sure it will all pan out for you in the long-term and all this will be a distant memory.... :-)
I've added a poll for the males...to see what they are really looking for in relationships these days...

I mean maybe these internet babes exist, cause guys give them a market to exist in...???
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Old 12-11-2010, 01:11 PM
 
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cause guys give them a market to exist in...???

Well, I think the facts already speak for themselves, if there was no market for them, they couldn't be there... they would have to find some alternative way of making a living ergo there IS a market.

Are these girls/women responsible for 'creating' a market? A bit like EasyJet creating a shorthaul travel market by offering such cheap airfares? I don't know - I doubt it. Prostitution is the oldest profession in the world, or so they say.
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Old 12-11-2010, 02:26 PM
 
Location: Florida
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cause guys give them a market to exist in...???

Well, I think the facts already speak for themselves, if there was no market for them, they couldn't be there... they would have to find some alternative way of making a living ergo there IS a market.

Are these girls/women responsible for 'creating' a market? A bit like EasyJet creating a shorthaul travel market by offering such cheap airfares? I don't know - I doubt it. Prostitution is the oldest profession in the world, or so they say.
Actually, I doubt that..I think farming is the oldest profession...

Prostitution could only come about once a society was stable and robust enough to afford such leisurly recreation...

Anyways...checked poll...no one has participated...

Most guys are 'dense'...and I think that's how women like them to be...

I think If I were a woman, I'd be turned off by the simplistic, sex driven nature of most guys....

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Old 12-11-2010, 03:29 PM
 
Location: NW Indiana
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Whether C-list or other dating sites, it seems more and more apparently attractive women turn out to be 'prostitutes' or other type of 'commercial'....

It's as if the exploitation of 'love' or 'lonliness' has become ripe entreprenurial grounds for many...

The line between 'porn' and love seems to be thinning...

If it's to good to be true, online, than it really must be 'fake'...

Are you at the point where you just avoid women who post photos of themselves looking like models??

I mean when they do that, what are the chances they have a web page with 200 hits a day, and your just one of many she convinces has special meaning in here life...?
And then proceeds to convince you to slide card for a more intamite experience...



I don't know about you, but that is such a turn off to me...I find it insulting...

But apparently many do not...

This seems to be a growing trend...it's as if young attractive women have given up on 'love'...and realize money, and the security it can provide, is worth more than some guy's heart...

Kinda like 'Who needs Bobs love, if I can drive around in a Porche'

Seems like now, outside of church, college or job, meeting someone of opposite sex to date...is near impossible...risky and dangerious...

The Porn industry is thriving, seems again, more and more young attractive women have traded their hopes of 'love' in for the short term love of money...

I mean how else could they, would they, be lured into such denagrading acts infront of the camera, for family and friends to see...

You really have to turn your emotions off, in order to do something like that...and what is left after words?

It just seems more and more women are giving up on love, and giving into the dollar as a way to satisfy their needs...

Why else would so many of them surrender themselves to these porn pimp types??

Their rewarding these porn pimps with all kinds of wild, fantacy sex that you could only dream of, while turning the cold shoulder to you
just for asking them out on a date...wow...

It's a sad state of affairs, for those of us left out here, who still seek a geniune, heart felt relationship....
(I'll start by admitting that I haven't read this thread; only read the OP, so don't know yet what everyone else has had to say.)

It seems to me, if men would stop obsessing about women's looks and only replying to the profiles with the best photos, they would find there are plenty of quality women out there. Just because we don't all look like models doesn't mean we aren't beautiful. If you're writing to a woman who looks like a goddess in her profile photo, chances are she's not for real. That's not to say that truly wonderful people can't be visually stunning as well, but think about it, guys......even the most beautiful woman is not going to look perfect all the time. Look at profiles that have multiple photos of the person in different situations, to give you a better idea of what she looks like in real life.

And FYI, I've found that men do the same thing - MANY of them misrepresent themselves in their profiles and their photos.

But keep looking, OP. Don't give up, because all it takes is ONE Ms. Right.
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Old 12-11-2010, 03:52 PM
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ive been on dating sites on and off for awhile now nad never come across a hooker.

what am i doing wrong!?
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Old 12-11-2010, 03:56 PM
 
Location: Florida
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(I'll start by admitting that I haven't read this thread; only read the OP, so don't know yet what everyone else has had to say.)

It seems to me, if men would stop obsessing about women's looks and only replying to the profiles with the best photos, they would find there are plenty of quality women out there. Just because we don't all look like models doesn't mean we aren't beautiful. If you're writing to a woman who looks like a goddess in her profile photo, chances are she's not for real. That's not to say that truly wonderful people can't be visually stunning as well, but think about it, guys......even the most beautiful woman is not going to look perfect all the time. Look at profiles that have multiple photos of the person in different situations, to give you a better idea of what she looks like in real life.

And FYI, I've found that men do the same thing - MANY of them misrepresent themselves in their profiles and their photos.

But keep looking, OP. Don't give up, because all it takes is ONE Ms. Right.
Ok babe...I think I agree with this post...

But please don't confuse my frustration over disingenuise adds with my wanting to find a 'mate' together...

I'm not obscessed with finding a mate...it is what it is...

I'm not like most sex driven 'dense' easy to read type of guys...

I can actually live without a woman...

But if one is ever smart enough to choose me, her life will be better for it...

If it happens fine, if not, oh well...
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Old 12-11-2010, 06:46 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Commercial and consumerism sucks ass on many levels... we don't need dating sites to tell us this.
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Old 12-12-2010, 12:16 AM
 
Location: Florida
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ive been on dating sites on and off for awhile now nad never come across a hooker.

what am i doing wrong!?
Ok, this is funny, how did I miss this one?
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Old 12-12-2010, 08:24 AM
 
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In the words of "Tone"...."I need 50 dollah's to make you hollah. I get paid to do the wild thang"

The problem isn't the dating websites. The problem is that men run miserably shallow.

Most single men in their 30's and 40's will devote the rest of their lives to banging a woman far hotter than they could normally land in real life, thereby holding onto a cartoon fantasy of centerfolds and strippers.
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Old 12-12-2010, 09:29 AM
 
Location: Florida
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In the words of "Tone"...."I need 50 dollah's to make you hollah. I get paid to do the wild thang"

The problem isn't the dating websites. The problem is that men run miserably shallow.

Most single men in their 30's and 40's will devote the rest of their lives to banging a woman far hotter than they could normally land in real life, thereby holding onto a cartoon fantasy of centerfolds and strippers.


Hi, I'm Tiger Woods, how r you??
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