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Old 08-08-2018, 10:52 PM
 
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As hot as any girlfriend I have had, and believe me, they were hotter than I deserve, none of them offered to send naked photos of themselves. It is something both they and I would see as having low moral fiber. I have no desire to walk around with those pics on my phone. What good could come of that? What use is it? No decent woman would do this. Welcome to the Kardashian generation.
so? that's you and the girls you were with. just because others don't agree doesn't mean they aren't decent or have low moral fiber.

foh with your pre-judgements
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Old 08-09-2018, 07:59 AM
 
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Sorry I don't want nude pictures or naughty pictures of my partner on my phone sent over text. Just not something I'm interested in and assume anything on your phone is never private.
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Old 08-09-2018, 08:27 AM
 
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I think I would probably also feel uncomfortable if I were to get a nude picture of my GF or wife. That has never happened but I think I would feel awkward and wouldn't know how to react. Is this a sign that she wants sex immediately, does she expect a compliment, etc. I think this just shows poor taste and is potentially unsafe for a woman, particularly if the face is clearly visible.


I have received a few photos with my then SO dressed either in sexy swimsuit or underwear. Those I am more comfortable with and it was a very pleasant surprise with no pressure.
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Old 08-09-2018, 08:44 AM
 
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2010.
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Old 08-14-2018, 09:37 PM
 
Location: Texas
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I have nude photos of my girlfriend (not showing her face in any of them, and aren't saved to my phone image gallery that is) and haven't shown any of my friends since that's private between me and her (and the trust she has in me to not show them to anyone).

If we break up one day, then we break up. What's the difference? Presumably, you'd have seen each other naked in-person anyway, so both of you know what you look like without any clothes on.

"No decent woman would do this" Lol...
Yeah, it just sounds so judgmental to say that women who send nude pics to their boyfriend are not "decent women".
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Old 09-28-2018, 07:23 PM
 
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I sent my bf a few sexy pics wearing lingerie and showing my...ample endowments. There was no nudity, my face wasn't showing and they were really nice pics. The 'girls' were quite impressive I must say!

I sent and waited. And waited. Finally asked if he got them. Yep, he did.

Oh.

Most men would have sent back some response immediately, probably hoping for more by encouragement.

He didn't appear interested so I stopped doing it. Our sex IRL is great. This just isn't one of those things for him I guess.
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Old 10-05-2018, 12:40 PM
 
Location: Willowbrook, Houston
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I have NO PROBLEM with my lady sending me suggestive or nude pics of herself to my phone, because best believe she'd get something more explicit sent back to her.
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Old 10-02-2019, 02:38 PM
 
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I am in the same situation!! I'm 26 and I'm 100 lbs, 5'5.. when we started dating he loved the naked pix.. I never send vagina pix tho. Only in my undies.. anyway, after we got serious he would tell me, don't be trashy be classy.. he looks at naked girls online all the time, we even look together or I'll point it out but idky when I try to pose the same way n send a pik he doesn't respond at all.. he watches porn almost everyday too but when it comes to sex he acts like its a chore but yet I do all the work n then he gets on top until he is finished so idk. I tried to spice it up but he isn't into tryin did things. I love him and love the sex, when I get it. But it makes NO since to me at all why he likes other girls pix and porn but not me.
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Old 10-02-2019, 03:26 PM
 
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I am in the same situation!! I'm 26 and I'm 100 lbs, 5'5.. when we started dating he loved the naked pix.. I never send vagina pix tho. Only in my undies.. anyway, after we got serious he would tell me, don't be trashy be classy.. he looks at naked girls online all the time, we even look together or I'll point it out but idky when I try to pose the same way n send a pik he doesn't respond at all.. he watches porn almost everyday too but when it comes to sex he acts like its a chore but yet I do all the work n then he gets on top until he is finished so idk. I tried to spice it up but he isn't into tryin did things. I love him and love the sex, when I get it. But it makes NO since to me at all why he likes other girls pix and porn but not me.
First, it's not just the photos, something else must be. If he is used to seeing you naked, maybe the photos do not excite him in the same way to those of an unattainable woman (porn star, sexy instagramer).

What I suggest is that you change scenarios.

Ask him to go on a hiking day and get naked in nature, that's pretty sexy, ask him to do it with you, suggests doing a threesome with a friend, in short, turn on the relationship, don't turn it off, many men lack imagination, you should make another effort to make the relationship work and he stay with you.
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Old 10-02-2019, 03:28 PM
 
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and the photo thing is just beyond me! He likes to look at pics of women on line and I'm sure he watches porn a little so why not ever want a picture of me to look at? even if you don't get turned on by pics of your GF like you would a porn star, shouldn't you at least fake it to make her feel good? What is going on with this guy?
Girl, don't take your photos, make him to take your photos, make him feel like those instagram photographers who have girls willing to take nude photos before him, act, get on the part and you'll see how things turn out differently.
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