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Unread 12-12-2010, 07:11 PM
 
Location: Atlanta
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Default If you were on a date and got asked if your job paid you enough to cover all your bills, how would you respond?

I just looked at her like she was crazy. I couldnt believe it. My job pays ok.(I work in an entry-level position at one of the Big 4 Banks) People tell me I look well off,but I'm 24 and living at home, so I have to disagree....anyway...how would have you responded to that?
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Unread 12-12-2010, 07:17 PM
 
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i'm 23 and at home. the economy's tough these days... and i'm not going to be scraping for food somewhere while trying to find a job. lucky to have parents help. you are lucky as well

as long as you plan to move out and be independent eventually, i wouldn't care. some girls would i suppose. but isn't dating about finding someone who will accept you for who you are, as you are, anyway?
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Unread 12-12-2010, 07:20 PM
 
Location: Atlanta
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^^^^true

Also I dont have any issues paying my bills and its just that I cant afford an apartment or roommate.
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Unread 12-12-2010, 07:22 PM
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Location: Middle America
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How would I respond?

"Check!"
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Unread 12-12-2010, 07:23 PM
 
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I would have said "no, actually, I can't cover my expenses so I thought you could cover the cost of dinner!"

This girl sounds very rude and I doubt I would have a second date with someone who asks questions like that.
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Unread 12-12-2010, 07:23 PM
 
Location: in your dreams
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So then what happened?
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Unread 12-12-2010, 07:32 PM
 
Location: Washington, D.C.
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If I was asked that on a DATE? Lol! I would have chuckled and politely pardoned myself to end the date, which I hope you did and have no plans to continue communications with her.
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Unread 12-12-2010, 07:36 PM
 
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Default I might have said

"yes of course, but if one day I can't, can you give me a cash advance with no finance charge?. then i can pay my Con Ed bill AND the minimum payment on my VISA..."
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Unread 12-12-2010, 07:38 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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Of course it does. But I wouldn't expect too many dinners out.
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Unread 12-12-2010, 08:10 PM
 
Location: Atlanta
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We didnt go on a second date, plus she kept making references to Kings of Leon's song, "Sex on Fire".......i thought i was on Candid Camera or something, worse date I've been on
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