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Old 12-13-2010, 09:47 AM
 
Location: Nashville, Tn
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Default What Kinds Of Comments From Your SO Would Deflate Your Ego?

"It's not that I don't want to be seen with you in public, I just don't want anyone to think we're a couple."

"Dammit, if you were just an inch or two taller I could wear my favorite high heels!"

"Oh honey, can't you find some other clothes that don't make you look so dumpy?"

"Just because it's small doesn't make you any less of a man."

Can you think of any others?
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Old 12-13-2010, 10:02 AM
 
Location: South FL
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"It's not that I don't want to be seen with you in public, I just don't want anyone to think we're a couple."

"Dammit, if you were just an inch or two taller I could wear my favorite high heels!"

"Oh honey, can't you find some other clothes that don't make you look so dumpy?"

"Just because it's small doesn't make you any less of a man."

Can you think of any others?
Oh boy, I can't think of anything. No matter how much he teases and no matter what he says to me, I still know he loves me and thinks the world of me.
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Old 12-13-2010, 10:23 AM
 
Location: 'Shangri-La 'mountains west of Wolf Creek, Oregon
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Oh boy, I can't think of anything. No matter how much he teases and no matter what he says to me, I still know he loves me and thinks the world of me.
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Old 12-13-2010, 10:29 AM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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Any comparisons to an how ex was better in some way are bad.
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Old 12-13-2010, 10:35 AM
Status: "Proud to not be a Dylan fan." (set 5 days ago)
 
Location: So Cal
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Yeah, it would be like her complaining about how her last bf was too big and sex used to just make her sore.......

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Old 12-13-2010, 10:40 AM
 
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I think comparisons between me and other people ie. a "better" guy would be pretty upsetting.

All in all though I wouldnt stick around with an SO that put me down all the time. That reflects more on the other person then on myself so I wouldnt feel too bad.
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Old 12-13-2010, 10:44 AM
 
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"It's not that I don't want to be seen with you in public, I just don't want anyone to think we're a couple."

"Dammit, if you were just an inch or two taller I could wear my favorite high heels!"

"Oh honey, can't you find some other clothes that don't make you look so dumpy?"

"Just because it's small doesn't make you any less of a man."

Can you think of any others?
i usually make a lot of money by working overtime. this has been a slow year and i'm very sensitive about it. if she made a comment about me not making enough money this year i'd be really hurt. hopefully 2011 will be better.
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Old 12-13-2010, 10:49 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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"It's not that I don't want to be seen with you in public, I just don't want anyone to think we're a couple."

"Dammit, if you were just an inch or two taller I could wear my favorite high heels!"

"Oh honey, can't you find some other clothes that don't make you look so dumpy?"

"Just because it's small doesn't make you any less of a man."

Can you think of any others?
Do you get those comments?
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Old 12-13-2010, 10:53 AM
 
Location: beautiful NC mountains!
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"You are just too stupid to understand."

"I don't need to buy a dishwasher, I married one."

"If you were thinner, people would like you more."

They are all in quotes because they are all quotes from my ex husband. What a jerk. All I can say is that I was very young. When you know better, you do better.
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Old 12-13-2010, 11:03 AM
 
Location: Nashville, Tn
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JustJulia wrote:
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Do you get those comments?
Ha. No, my situation is even worse, I don't even have a significant other.
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