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Men, question. Let's say you were dating a beautiful woman, you guys have not gotten intimate yet but you really like her and her knock out looks. She reveals to you she was born male, and has not had the operation. Would you continue to date her or drop it?
Addict, I feel for you, because I have a hunch that you are the she that was born a he. I'm half ashamed to admit it, but I couldn't hang. Sorry. I'm sure some guys could, and I hope you find one.
Men, question. Let's say you were dating a beautiful woman, you guys have not gotten intimate yet but you really like her and her knock out looks. She reveals to you she was born male, and has not had the operation. Would you continue to date her or drop it?
You have got to be kidding. The said person (probably you) will be lucky if he doesn't get his teeth knocked out.
A piece of advice: Don't mislead people in this manner, because straight men do not want a man, regardless of operations. You may think you are a woman, but you will always be a man, even without your junk.
Addict, I feel for you, because I have a hunch that you are the she that was born a he. I'm half ashamed to admit it, but I couldn't hang. Sorry. I'm sure some guys could, and I hope you find one.
Dont go assuming things. Im actually male. This was just a question
what does it matter if vegas is a pre op transgender, dating a pre-op transgender or is just a guy with a curios question...
it is a question all the same.
ive delt with alot of transgendered folks, msotly older teens/younger adults, and try to encorage them to be open about the situation, NOONE likes a suprise no matter what their gender or orientation so it should be made very clear (even with post ops, which by the way a good post op its impossible to tell "he' used to be a she or visa versa) from the beginning
some people have no problem dating a pre-op transgender (or even transgenders with no plans or unable to op...) but its been my experience that being upfront about that kind of status is a MUST if you want anything to come of a potential relationship...
finding out after a few dates (or worse, just as your getting intimate) in my opinion is a cheap blow, its unfair to the person the pre-op is dating, and not good for a pre-op to be in that kind of situation.
some are open to staying in a relationship with a pre-op IF everyone is honest from the beginning but a kind of "oh by the way" situation would NOT be the best way to go about it.
as a side note, most men can avoid this problem by looking for an adams apple.
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