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Old 12-16-2010, 08:08 AM
 
Location: Washington, DC
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I think it has come to this. I just stopped seeing yet another woman my age (40s) because her interests were limited to real estate, cooking, plants and money. She didn't drink and lacked a fun youthful romantic side. But she was very typical of the woman I've dated who were about my age: no spark, judgemental, insecure.

In my heart I yearn for younger (25-35?) girls with energy, not jaded, still cute, more likely to want to do active stuff like travel, hiking, and step out at night. I fear this is the only type of gal I'll be motivated to keep in my life for the duration. I could give her a comfortable, fun, but childless life (lots of pets instead).

So I think I'm basically screwed, I guess I waited too long.

But there are genres/fetishes for everything right? Can someone suggest how an older guy can find younger women who might be looking for a Sugar Daddy type? Overseas dating sites? No thanks...

I apologize in advance if this can be filed in the "well duh" "Mr Shallow" "grow up!" or "gender bashing" bucket. It is what it is...
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Old 12-16-2010, 08:14 AM
 
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Online maybe? You know, Match.com and the likes?
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Old 12-16-2010, 08:17 AM
 
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Horse shows. And its easy, divisions are split up by age groups.
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Old 12-16-2010, 08:21 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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I think there are websites devoted to this time of arrangement. Probably sugardaddy.com. I heard seekingarrangement.com or something like that mentioned here.

Do you really have to get into the sugar daddy aspect of it? You know what a sugar daddy is, right? It's not just an older man.
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Old 12-16-2010, 08:31 AM
 
Location: a primitive state
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LOL, it's just plain ignorant to think that women in their 40's don't enjoy outdoor and social activities. You're just making excuses for wanting a younger woman. Knock yourself out, shugga.
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Old 12-16-2010, 08:41 AM
 
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Just so you know most sugar daddy's are rich older men. You have to have the money in order to even be considered one. If not, your just a gross old guy.

But really I have had sex with a wide range of girls:13-60. And you just are a bore yourself or you are not getting the right ones. Again, the only problem I can think of is you.
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Old 12-16-2010, 08:54 AM
 
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I think it has come to this. I just stopped seeing yet another woman my age (40s) because her interests were limited to real estate, cooking, plants and money. She didn't drink and lacked a fun youthful romantic side. But she was very typical of the woman I've dated who were about my age: no spark, judgemental, insecure.

In my heart I yearn for younger (25-35?) girls with energy, not jaded, still cute, more likely to want to do active stuff like travel, hiking, and step out at night. I fear this is the only type of gal I'll be motivated to keep in my life for the duration. I could give her a comfortable, fun, but childless life (lots of pets instead).

So I think I'm basically screwed, I guess I waited too long.

But there are genres/fetishes for everything right? Can someone suggest how an older guy can find younger women who might be looking for a Sugar Daddy type? Overseas dating sites? No thanks...

I apologize in advance if this can be filed in the "well duh" "Mr Shallow" "grow up!" or "gender bashing" bucket. It is what it is...
There are plenty of 40ish gals that fit that bill so let's cut to the chase, you want someone younger and hotter to bang. Hey, I'm 40 and if I were your buddy I'd be saying the same thing to you in real life. You have to be honest with yourself about what you want and honest about that in your relationship. Then it's fair to everyone involved.

Go google seeking arrangement and see if that's something that will work for you. I know we've had a poster or two around here that has used that site.
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Old 12-16-2010, 08:58 AM
 
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Since you're looking to be a sugar daddy, I'm thinking you need to hang out where these younger ladies are and advertise how much sugar you've got.
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Old 12-16-2010, 09:01 AM
 
Location: Hudson County, NJ
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Don't worry 25-35 yo women nowadays are still jaded. Sounds like you need to go for 19 yo girls, and even then, good luck they are jaded as well
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Old 12-16-2010, 09:07 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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I think it has come to this. I just stopped seeing yet another woman my age (40s) because her interests were limited to real estate, cooking, plants and money. She didn't drink and lacked a fun youthful romantic side. But she was very typical of the woman I've dated who were about my age: no spark, judgemental, insecure.

In my heart I yearn for younger (25-35?) girls with energy, not jaded, still cute, more likely to want to do active stuff like travel, hiking, and step out at night. I fear this is the only type of gal I'll be motivated to keep in my life for the duration. I could give her a comfortable, fun, but childless life (lots of pets instead).

So I think I'm basically screwed, I guess I waited too long.

But there are genres/fetishes for everything right? Can someone suggest how an older guy can find younger women who might be looking for a Sugar Daddy type? Overseas dating sites? No thanks...

I apologize in advance if this can be filed in the "well duh" "Mr Shallow" "grow up!" or "gender bashing" bucket. It is what it is...
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