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In a dinner conversation last night with another married couple, the following subject was discussed and I wanted to see how common/uncommon it is with the CD forum.
The simple question is how important is oral sex in a long term relationship. We all agreed that it is more of a 'single life' action and that while it still occurs during marriage, this couple has been married 16 years, that it is virtually a no-go.
Probably very predicatable....but he wished it happened more, both giving and recieving, she was fairly indifferent and found her self not often up for it.
So, what do you think...we have been married for over 10 years and I have to admit, engage in it rarely.
Hmm... I think it's more important to the man than it is to the woman. After just having my relationship ended after five and a half years, he would ask about it more than I would. I think it gets old and maybe set aside for extra special "occasion" or when you're really feeling "randy", LOL but I wouuld venture to say that the women will view it as less important. Just my own personal opinion.
And I'm not saying that I'm not interested in doing it but, it's not a daily thing anyway and when you're with the same person for years - it loses some of the excitement.
In a dinner conversation last night with another married couple, the following subject was discussed and I wanted to see how common/uncommon it is with the CD forum.
The simple question is how important is oral sex in a long term relationship. We all agreed that it is more of a 'single life' action and that while it still occurs during marriage, this couple has been married 16 years, that it is virtually a no-go.
Probably very predicatable....but he wished it happened more, both giving and recieving, she was fairly indifferent and found her self not often up for it.
So, what do you think...we have been married for over 10 years and I have to admit, engage in it rarely.
i keep trying to answer this but i can't seem to make myself hit "send reply" about something so personal on a public forum.
i keep trying to answer this but i can't seem to make myself hit "send reply" about something so personal on a public forum.
Look at it this way, it's a public forum but we are all somewhat anonymous. Ya know? LOL It's not like you're going to have dinner with all of us after you hit "send" LOL
Sorry, wasn't sure how to ask it. Just wondering where people stood, besides the "guys like it and girls get tired of doing it"
Looking for opinions, etc....it certainly goes both ways....not sure why men are more apt to love it
LOL. no it's a good question but i'm one of the few guys i know that doesn't "kiss and tell". i've never told people much about my sexual relationships. i'm kind of superstitious about it, like if i talk/brag about it it'll jinx me. oral sex is still part of our life but not as important as it used to be. she would do me a "favor" though any time i asked.
We've been together over 10 years, and our very active sex life has not diminished at all, nor has this aspect of it. Once sex becomes mundane or routine, I think you may be headed for relationship problems unless you are both content with the loss of sexual variety.
We've been together over 10 years, and our very active sex life has not diminished at all, nor has this aspect of it. Once sex becomes mundane or routine, I think you may be headed for relationship problems unless you are both content with the loss of sexual variety.
That sums it up very nicely.
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