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Old 12-23-2010, 07:48 PM
 
Location: Omaha, NE
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OK....so this guy I'm dating asks me if he satisfies me.
I say yes.
He asks if I c*m every single time we do it and to be honest.
So I say no.
And he's like well how can you be satisfied if you don't c*m?
And I didn't really have an answer....but I am satisfied. Does that make sense?

I guess my question is.....if you don't c*m during sex EVERY SINGLE TIME you have sex with your SO, are you still satisfied? I mean usually if the passion and intimacy is there etc etc, I'm happy....how about you guys?

and I don't mean like, if you never ever do, that's a whole different story.
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Old 12-24-2010, 02:03 AM
 
Location: In my ponytail dreams
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I think this is where my asexuality shows best. Nothing and I mean nothing (not even kissing or hugging which I like much) give so awesome kicks for me than staring long hair or ponytail. Of course it has to be certain type of hair or ponytail but thats it. It gives me bigger kicks just look at it than anything else. I hated whole fore play stuff and I do not ever want sex but give me some hair and I am in heaven
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Old 12-24-2010, 04:22 AM
 
Location: Southern California
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If I c*m, then I'm satisfied.








































Kidding ladies. You need to c*m, too...

Hee.hee...
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Old 12-24-2010, 05:13 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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I don't every time, no. Sometimes time is short or we are interrupted. Sometimes my goal was to get him off. Sometimes it just doesn't happen. Same with him. I try to please him, he tries to please me, and it all works out fine. It's when people have sex only to get themselves off that it's not much fun for the other person.

Think of it like a pot of hot water. Sometimes it boils. Sometimes it simmers. If you keep it hot and just about to bubble, you can bring it to a boil pretty easily. Don't let your water get cold.
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Old 12-24-2010, 05:57 AM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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Think of it like a pot of hot water. Sometimes it boils. Sometimes it simmers. If you keep it hot and just about to bubble, you can bring it to a boil pretty easily. Don't let your water get cold.
Keeping a pot of water at the "simmer" level for too long can result in "flat" water.

Ask any hard-core tea drinker.
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Old 12-24-2010, 06:09 AM
 
Location: Great Plains
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I don't every time, no. Sometimes time is short or we are interrupted. Sometimes my goal was to get him off. Sometimes it just doesn't happen. Same with him. I try to please him, he tries to please me, and it all works out fine. It's when people have sex only to get themselves off that it's not much fun for the other person.

Think of it like a pot of hot water. Sometimes it boils. Sometimes it simmers. If you keep it hot and just about to bubble, you can bring it to a boil pretty easily. Don't let your water get cold.
That is a good way to describe it.
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Old 12-24-2010, 08:06 AM
 
Location: Omaha, NE
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Keeping a pot of water at the "simmer" level for too long can result in "flat" water.

Ask any hard-core tea drinker.
LMAO
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Old 12-24-2010, 11:06 AM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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I'm satisified when she c*ms. Only then do I know that she has completely released her inhibitions and derived the deepest pleasure from my efforts.
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Old 12-24-2010, 12:59 PM
 
Location: Coastal, North Carolina
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It seems I could always bring my girlfriend to multiple sarcasms.
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Old 12-24-2010, 08:58 PM
 
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They c*m too?
Who knew??????????????
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